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For the 47th episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra welcome their dear friends, going by the alias "Ted & Alice," for the 411 on swinging during a pandemic. Ted & Alice are a happily married couple in an open relationship who live in the Los Angeles area. They dish about sex parties, the evolution of their now non-monogamous relationship, sharing a girlfriend (the kids call that a throuple), partner privilege in polyamory, how coronavirus has impacted the scene & so much more. Don't miss this kinky-ass gem of an episode! Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Intensity by Pour Moi is an intimate health and stimulation device. Pour Moi is offering our listeners an additional $25 off of Intensity when you go to PourMoi.com and enter code Private at checkout. You can use this code along with any code on their website. The OhMyG is a super-silent internal G-spot massager for bodies with a vagina. OhMyG i

For the 46th episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra welcome Winslow Dumaine, a Chicago-based comedian who created The Tarot Restless as a means to cope with the aftermath of an abusive relationship, betrayal & heartbreak. This is a mystical breakup healing story, with a bonus meditation on what it means to be a former fan of Marilyn Manson in the wake of abuse allegations from multiple women, including ex-girlfriend Evan Rachel Wood. For more Winslow Dumaine: Pre-order The Tarot Restless (& shop his cool online store!) Follow Winslow on Instagram @calculations Follow Winslow on Twitter @WinslowDumaine Check out Winslow's website winslowdumaine.com Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: The OhMyG is a super-silent internal G-spot massager for bodies with a vagina. OhMyG is offering our listeners 30% off when you go to IobaToys.com and enter code PRIVATE at checkout. Dipsea is an audio erotica

For the 45th episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra drop the 7th episode of our "Comedians of OnlyFans" series, featuring Los Angeles-based standup comedian, writer & podcaster Teresa Lee, who uses her OnlyFans to share the most shameful thing of all — poetry. Out-of-work comedians have been flocking to OnlyFans to help pay their bills during the coronavirus pandemic. This series explores the intersection of comedy, sex work & COVID-19. For more Teresa Lee: Subscribe to Teresa's OnlyFans onlyfans.com/teresalee Follow Teresa on Instagram @leresatee Follow Teresa on Twitter @leresatee Check out Teresa's You Can Tell Me Anything podcast  Psst, Courtney has an OnlyFans too: onlyfans.com/cocopeepshow Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Sakara is a wellness company rooted in the transformative power of plant-based food. Sakara is offering our listeners 20% off their first order when they go to Sa

For the 44th episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra drop the 6th episode of our "Comedians of OnlyFans" series, featuring comedian, influencer & MILF Meredith Jacqueline, who splits her time between Los Angeles & Texas. Out-of-work comedians have been flocking to OnlyFans to help pay their bills during the coronavirus pandemic. This series explores the intersection of comedy, sex work & COVID-19. For more Meredith Jacqueline: Subscribe to Meredith's OnlyFans onlyfans.com/themeredith Follow Meredith on Instagram @meredithactually Follow Meredith on Twitter @themeredith Check out Meredith's Like A Virgin podcast  Psst, Courtney has an OnlyFans too: onlyfans.com/cocopeepshow Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Sakara is a wellness company rooted in the transformative power of plant-based food. Sakara is offering our listeners 20% off their first order when they go to Sakara.com/PRIVATE or ente

For the 43rd episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra welcome standup comedian, cartoonist & @sex_is_weird creator Katy Fishell, who makes deeply personal cartoons about sex & body image. She shares how academia can stifle creativity, how a boring day job was a blessing in disguise, what inspired her to make comics out of radical honesty, how overcoming a fear of social media allowed her to share her art & find an eager audience, the unexpected ways she's connected with followers, why Instagram’s policies are harmful to artists & why it's not that hard to use your platform for good. We also deconstruct the myth that one can be "too old" to pursue their dreams, perpetuated by our youth-obsessed society & unpack the complexity of sharing your own grooming experience.  For more Katy Fishell: Follow Sex Is Weird on Instagram @sex_is_weird Follow Katy on Instagram @katyfishell Check out Katy's website katyfishell.com Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasu

For the 42nd episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra drop the 5th episode of our "Comedians of OnlyFans" series, featuring Atlanta-based comedian, photographer & OnlyFans creator Cherith Fuller.  Out-of-work comedians have been flocking to OnlyFans to help pay their bills during the coronavirus pandemic. This series explores the intersection of comedy, sex work & COVID-19. For more Cherith Fuller: Subscribe to Cherith's OnlyFans onlyfans.com/cherith_nsfw Follow Cherith on Twitter @CherithFuller Follow Cherith on Instagram @cherithfuller Check out Cherith's The Art of Losing It podcast  Psst, Courtney has an OnlyFans too: onlyfans.com/cocopeepshow Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Valentine Couples Box: Like A Kitten is offering our listeners 20% off AND free shipping when you go to LikeAKitten.com/Private OR enter code Private at checkout. Sakara is a wellness company rooted in the trans

For the 41st episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra drop the 4th episode of our "Comedians of OnlyFans" series, featuring comedian & podcaster Nika Lomazzo. She's a self-confessed former political candidate with a coke problem from Rhode Island, now based in NYC & she's so fucking funny. She also brings the trans perspective. Out-of-work comedians have been flocking to OnlyFans to help pay their bills during the coronavirus pandemic. This series explores the intersection of comedy, sex work & COVID-19. For more Nika Lomazzo: Subscribe to Nika's OnlyFans onlyfans.com/nikazhara Follow Nika on Twitter @NikaLomazzo Follow Nika on Instagram @nikalomazzo Check out Nika's Best Mistakes podcast with her bestie Anya Volz (who happens to be last week's guest) Psst, Courtney has an OnlyFans too: onlyfans.com/cocopeepshow Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Lorals are the world's first oral sex panties

For the 40th episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra drop the 3rd episode of our "Comedians of OnlyFans" series, featuring NYC-based comedian, podcaster & nonbinary bad bitch (pronouns: she/her/her highness). And hail to the queen because she's currently in the top 1.3% of OnlyFans creators. Out-of-work comedians have been flocking to OnlyFans to help pay their bills during the coronavirus pandemic. This series explores the intersection of comedy, sex work & COVID-19. For more Anya Volz: Follow Anya on Twitter @anyavolz Follow Anya on Instagram @anyavolz Check out Anya's Best Mistakes podcast with her bestie Nika Lomazzo Psst, Courtney has an OnlyFans too: onlyfans.com/cocopeepshow Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Sakara is a wellness company rooted in the transformative power of plant-based food. Sakara is offering our listeners 20% off their first order when they go to Sakara.com/PRIVATE

For the 39th episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra drop the 2nd episode of our "Comedians of OnlyFans" series, featuring Los Angeles-based comedian, cannabis pro & linguistics expert Adrienne Airhart, who happens to be crushing it in the top 1% of OnlyFans creators! Out-of-work comedians have been flocking to OnlyFans to help pay their bills during the coronavirus pandemic. This series explores the intersection of comedy, sex work & COVID-19. For more Adrienne Airhart: Subscribe to Adrienne... er, CRAYdrienne's OnlyFans onlyfans.com/craydrienne Follow Adrienne on Twitter @craydrienne Follow Adrienne on Instagram @craydrienne Check out Adrienne's website craydrienne.com Psst, Courtney has an OnlyFans too: onlyfans.com/cocopeepshow Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Lorals are the world's first oral sex panties; they're single-use natural latex panties designed to be worn during oral sex a

For the 38th episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra drop the 1st episode of our "Comedians of OnlyFans" series, featuring Atlanta-based comedian & musician Samm Severin (aka Janet Television). Out-of-work comedians have been flocking to OnlyFans to help pay their bills during the coronavirus pandemic. This series explores the intersection of comedy, sex work & COVID-19. For more Samm Severin: Subscribe to Samm... er, Janet's OnlyFans onlyfans.com/janettelevision Check out Samm's comedy EP Stoned and Sad on Spotify Follow Samm on Twitter @waitressboner Follow Samm on Instagram @tvfan420 Follow Janet Television on Twitter @JanetTelevision Psst, Courtney has an OnlyFans too: onlyfans.com/cocopeepshow Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Trivia Star is a FREE mobile quiz game that’s entertaining and challenging. Trivia Star is offering 2,500 coins and 500 gems when you download and play. Just

For the 37th episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra take you back to Helsinki for a previously unreleased episode about being out & proud in Finland. We explore how American & Finnish romance differ, Cristal's experience dating in NYC (aka the original Carrie Bradshaw), the linguistic connotations of dating vs. coffee in Helsinki, the lack of Finnish gay icons, being a queer role model, the importance of living an honest and liberated life, Hannu's experience coming out late in life (after 25 years of marriage & 3 kids), reactions from family, parents & children, being half of the 1st gay couple to get married in Finland, leaving the closet doesn’t mean automatic happiness, being honest about who you are yields rewards even if it seems risky, how to foster diversity in travel, why everybody should be celebrated not tolerated, why not "making a fuss" about being gay is dangerous & the feeling we want all straight men to have — plus, updates from Hannu & Caroline! Thanks

For the 36th episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra take you back to Helsinki for a previously unreleased episode about the legalization of gay marriage in Finland & how that's impacted the lives of queer residents. We cover the overwhelming response to the initial petition, the recent history of how the law passed, a classically Finnish wedding proposal, coming out later in life, what it was like to be the 1st same-sex couple to get married in Finland, the legislation's impact on LGBT+ acceptance & more! Thanks to the following people for lending us their voices & teaching us about their culture. Follow them on Instagram to learn more about them & their work: Aino Pursiainen – @ainopr Hannu Virtanen – @lifeof2men Caroline Suinner – @carolinesuinner (Also, go back and listen to the 1st three episodes in our Helsinki series if you haven’t already!) Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Trivia S

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For the 34th episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra welcome comedy writer Georgia Shenk for a special COVID-19 breakup story. Georgia shares her experience consciously uncoupling with her ex-boyfriend while living together during the 'rona lockdown... plus, reconnecting with someone from her past. This touching & hilarious pandemic tale has it all! For more Georgia Shenk: Follow Georgia on Twitter @GeorgiaShenk Follow Georgia on Instagram @georgiashenk Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Trivia Star is a FREE mobile quiz game that’s entertaining and challenging. Trivia Star is offering 2,500 coins and 500 gems when you download and play. Just go to the Apple or Google store and search for Trivia Star. Pour Moi is offering our listeners an additional $25 off of Intensity when you go to PourMoi.com and enter code Private at checkout. You can use this code along with any code on their website. h

For the 33rd episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra speak to an Ashley Madison member going by the alias of "Nikki" & do a deep dive into why women cheat. We also chat with Ashley Madison's Chief Strategy Officer Paul Keable, as well as their Communications Director Isabella Mise, who coauthored "The Good Wife Study" on female infidelity. You're gonna want to check your presumptions at the door for this one! Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Intensity by Pour Moi is an intimate health and stimulation device. Pour Moi is offering our listeners an additional $25 off of Intensity when you go to PourMoi.com and enter code Private at checkout. You can use this code along with any code on their website.  Dipsea is an audio erotica app full of short, sexy stories and guided sessions designed to turn you on. Dipsea is offering a 30 day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/private. We want to con

For the 32nd episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra welcome standup comedian & artist Greg Edwards for an interesting look at his redline art series. We dig into the inspiration for his series & the conversations that have come from it, the reality of racist lending practices, if you eat pussy you're on the right side of history, interracial dating & how you can scar little kids with grownup prejudice, why listening is the key to being a better ally & more. For more Greg Edwards: Check out Greg's art website gregedwardsart.com Follow Greg on Twitter @GregtheGrouch Follow Greg on Instagram @gregcomedy Check out Greg's comedy website gregcomedy.com Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Dipsea is an audio erotica app full of short, sexy stories and guided sessions designed to turn you on. Dipsea is offering a 30 day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/private. Trivia Star is a FREE mob

For the 31st episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra welcome writer/podcaster/activist/sex worker extraordinaire Selena the Stripper for a primer on how racism operates at your local strip club. We explore the nuances of discrimination within sex work (i.e. how racism works at strip clubs vs. racism in escorting), the complexities of labor organizing within the sex industry, being a sex worker & also a sex client, the coded search terms women seeking happy ending massages need to know (pelvic work, yoni massage, tantric work, etc.), a hot tip for screening your happy ending masseuse, erotic massage as a way to heal sexual trauma, how powerful it is for femmes to command their own sexual pleasure, Selena's experience with interracial dating, how to be a better ally & more. For more Selena the Stripper: Follow Selena on Instagram @prettyboygirl Listen to the Heaux in the Kneaux podcast Subscribe to Selena's Patreon /therealprettyboygirl Private Parts Unknown is a pro

For the 30th episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra welcome podcaster Miles Gray for a funny & empowering conversation about how you can participate in the anti-racist movement of liberation in small ways that actually have a big impact. We dig into the power of language & word choice, if you see or hear something racist, say something, leveraging your privilege for good, the definition of white privilege: choosing comfort over conflict at the expense of others, the problematic Michael Scott mentality, The Office as a metaphor for how white supremacy works, the harrowing story of J Dilla making his Donuts album, sampling as a Black art form & what makes sample-based music so dope, what Miles has learned from dating white women, the importance of empathy in dismantling systemic racism & more. For more Miles Gray: Listen to The Daily Zeitgeist podcast Listen to 420 Day Fiance Follow Miles on Twitter @milesofgray Follow Miles on Instagram @milesofgray Private Parts

For the 29th episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra welcome actor, comedian & podcaster Jacquis Neal for a briefing on the way racism works at your favorite improv theater, probably. We explore the systemic racism built into even well-intentioned institutions like UCB, the extra hurdles you have to clear as a Black improviser, the reality that a good artist doesn't necessarily make for a good business person (or coach), the brilliance of the TV show Martin, roasting as an important part of Black culture, the complicated perceptions of interracial relationships, why someone needs to make a "Google is free" t-shirt & more. For more Jacquis Neal: Listen to the Culture Kings podcast Follow Jacquis on Twitter @jacquisneal Follow Jacquis on Instagram @jacquisneal Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Dipsea is an audio erotica app full of short, sexy stories and guided sessions designed to turn you o

For the 28th episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra welcome comedian & writer Ashley Ray for some lowkey Seven Mountains/Life Goals University CHURCH about why you shouldn't give your money to Shaun King — plus, what to do instead! We also discuss scammers more broadly, OG pegging (pre-Broad City), leading her school's GSA, Big Lesbian Organizer Energy, her mom coming out in her 60s, founding the FB group Hoe Summer, the genius of Michaela Coel's I May Destroy You, Beyoncé's Lemonade as a love letter to Black women & so much more. For more Ashley Ray: Subscribe to Ashley's Patreon for the full Shaun King PowerPoint patreon.com/theashleyray Read Ashley's "I'm Not Going To Let You Cancel Jessica Kirson" ashleyray.substack.com Follow Ashley on Twitter @theashleyray Follow Ashley on Instagram @theashleyray Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Dipsea is an audio erotica app full of short, sexy s