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For the 126th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes you to a summer squirt fest with sex educators extraordinaire Lola Jean — the two-time world record holder for volume squirting — and Samia Burton of Sexual Essentials. First, Lola Jean explains her different sexual revolutions, how she discovered she could squirt, how she became a two-time world-record-setting squirter, and the two types of squirters. Then, Samia Burton shares a thrilling primer on squirting and the disappointment some people feel when they discover it doesn't necessarily come with an orgasm. Study with Samia! Obviously, she’s a stellar sex educator, so take a class to level up your skills: Masturbation & Squirting 101: https://sexual-essentials.mykajabi.com/a/2147507841/g6JuLmGy #Dickriding 101: https://sexual-essentials.mykajabi.com/a/2147507840/g6JuLmGy #MouthMasterclass: https://sexual-essentials.mykajabi.com/a/2147507839/g6JuLmGy For more from Lola Jean: Check out Lola Jean's website lolajean.com Ch

For the 125th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak celebrates her third anniversary on OnlyFans with a reflection on what she's learned from her time on the platform (regarding body image, boundaries, and more), plus marketing tips and an accounting of how much money she's made. For links related to this episode: Psst, Courtney has an 0nIyFan$, which is a horny way to support the show: https://linktr.ee/cocopeepshow You can also follow and/or subscribe to Courtney's Playboy creator profile playboy.com/app/coco If YOU want to become an 0nIyFan$ creator, sign up for an account using Courtney's referral link bit.ly/43NKT2i Here’s a playlist of our entire “Comedians of OnlyFans” series. Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Switch to the better razor and show your skin you care with Athena Club! Get started with Athena Club today by shopping in-store at Target nationwide. Lume is a whole-body deodorant for pits, priv

For the 124th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes writer and sex worker advocate Antonia Crane. Antonia is the founder of Strippers United (formerly Soldiers of Pole), the author of the sex work memoir Spent, and a current Ph.D. candidate at USC. As you may know from the recent episode with Velveeta of the newly unionized Star Garden strippers in North Hollywood, California, they were hugely inspired by the Lusties of the Lusty Lady in San Francisco. The Lusties were the first strippers to successfully unionize in the U.S., back in 1997. And the Star Garden dancers also got assistance from Strippers United. Antonia Crane has been involved in both of these efforts. She was one of the original co-founders of Soldiers of Pole (now Strippers United), and she helped inspire this whole new generation of activist strippers. This is part two of a two-part series. The last episode was part one, featuring an interview with Antonia from 2019, and this episode contains a follow-up interview con

This week, we're taking a break from our regularly scheduled programming to share a preview of another great podcast from the Pleasure Podcasts network. It's called American Sex, and on a mission to change our dysfunctional relationship with shame & pleasure, hosts Sunny Megatron & Ken Melvoin-Berg tackle taboo topics with lighthearted humor & down-to-earth relatability. This clip is from episode #170, entitled "Taboo BDSM Play." In it, guest Mollena Williams-Haas discusses making sense of our darkest, deepest, most unspeakable kinky fantasies.  For more from the American Sex podcast: Listen to the rest of the episode on sunnymegatron.com Tune into American Sex for more conversations like this Psst, Courtney has an 0nIyFan$, which is a horny way to support the show: https://linktr.ee/cocopeepshow Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and

For the 123rd episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes writer and sex worker advocate Antonia Crane. Antonia is the founder of Strippers United (formerly Soldiers of Pole), the author of the sex work memoir Spent, and a current Ph.D. candidate at USC. We've covered sex worker labor rights a lot on this podcast, and today, I'm sharing a pivotal interview with Antonia Crane from 2019 that helped start it all. As you may know from the recent episode with Velveeta of the newly unionized Star Garden strippers in North Hollywood, California, they were hugely inspired by the Lusties of the Lusty Lady in San Francisco. The Lusties were the first strippers to successfully unionize in the U.S., back in 1997. And the Star Garden dancers also got assistance from Strippers United. Antonia Crane has been involved in both of these efforts. She was one of the original co-founders of Soldiers of Pole (now Strippers United), and she helped inspire this whole new generation of activist strippers. This is p

Today I'm sharing a preview of another great podcast from the Pleasure Podcasts network that I think you’ll enjoy. On Sluts and Scholars, therapist and sexologist Nicoletta Heidegger talks with diverse professionals about all things pleasure and sexuality. In this preview, strap in for some strap-on information with sex and pleasure educator Luna Matatas. Nicoletta and Luna talk about pegging, anal play, and why it is so hard to just receive pleasure. Join these slutty scholars as they help to make your sex smarter, and your smarts sexier. For more from Sluts and Scholars: Listen to the rest of the episode on Apple Podcasts 216 Peg the Patriarchy with Luna Matatas  Listen to Sluts and Scholars wherever you listen to podcasts Check out their website for all relevant links slutsandscholars.com Follow Sluts and Scholars on Instagram @slutsandscholars Psst, Courtney has an 0nIyFan$, which is a horny way to support the show: https://linktr.ee/cocopeepshow Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Ple

For the 122nd episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Allison Moon, sex educator and author of "Girl Sex 101" and "Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-Free Sex." In this "Quickie" episode, Allison shares tips for dating and sleeping around without being a (non-gendered) dick about it. This is your non-shady guide to sexual sex and stepping into your ethical slut era while keeping everything above board with your various partners. For more from today's guest, Allison Moon: Order Getting It from Bookshop.org Check out Allison's website alliedmoon.com Connect with Allison on Instagram @allison_moon Psst, Courtney has an 0nIyFan$, which is a horny way to support the show: https://linktr.ee/cocopeepshow Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Switch to the better razor and show your skin you care with Athena Club! Get started with Athena Club today by shopping in-store at Target nationwide. https:/

For the 121st episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes writer and kinkster Amanda McNeil, who gives us a tour through Wisconsin sex clubs, a nude farm, and a hotel swinger takeover... and shares the hilarious story of meeting her best friend as a gang bang. For more from today's guest, Amanda McNeil: Follow Amanda on Twitter @GingerMidwest Follow Amanda on Instagram @texasamanda Subscribe to Amanda's Substack amandamcneil.substack.com/welcome Psst, Courtney has an 0nIyFan$, which is a horny way to support the show: https://linktr.ee/cocopeepshow Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Dipsea is an audio erotica app full of short, sexy stories and guided sessions designed to turn you on. Dipsea is offering a 30-day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/private. https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and sexy review! —> ratethispodcast.com/privat

For some special holiday weekend listening, enjoy this preview of the Double Teamed Podcast, hosted by twins Cami and Niki, who are on a mission to bring awareness to non-monogamy and kink. In this clip, Cami and Niki talk about their recent journeys with kink and power exchanges. Check out the rest of the episode to hear them answering some listener questions centered around prioritizing partners, restructuring FWBs, and letting someone know how you feel. Hope you enjoy! For more from Double Teamed with Cami and Niki: Listen to the rest of the episode on Apple Podcasts Missing Kink, Prioritizing Partners, & Restructuring FWBs Listen to Double Teamed wherever you listen to podcasts Check out their website for all relevant links doubleteamedpodcast.com Psst, Courtney has an 0nIyFan$, which is a horny way to support the show: https://linktr.ee/cocopeepshow Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds

For the 120th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes the long-time co-hosts of the Multiamory podcast, Jase Lindgren, Emily Sotelo Matlack, and Dedeker Winston, to celebrate the publication of their new book, Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships. Today we’re talking about non-monogamy with a triad of podcasting OGs. Jase, Emily, and Dedeker have been podcasting together for nearly a decade… so long that they’ve developed their own relationship tools and co-authored a new book that just came out. In this episode, we discuss the romance that preceded the podcast, podcasting through a breakup, the cultural shift toward non-monogamy — which they helped forge — their favorite chapters and tools from the book, their keys to good relationships of any kind, and tips for open relationships in specific. For more from today's guests, Jase, Emily, and Dedeker, from the Multiamory podcast: Check out their website multiamory.com Check out multiamory.com/book for more info about th

For the 119th episode of Private Parts Unknown, first, host Courtney Kocak shares an update on Hot Pod Summer; then, you'll hear the story Courtney reported on Charlie Matula and his husband, Hunter Fox, entitled "Happily leather after at The Eagle in Silver Lake" for KCRW, the local NPR affiliate based in Santa Monica, California. The story originally aired in June 2019 for Pride. Psst, Courtney has an 0nIyFan$, which is a horny way to support the show: https://linktr.ee/cocopeepshow Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Switch to the better razor and show your skin you care with Athena Club! Get started with Athena Club today by shopping in-store at Target nationwide. https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and sexy review! —> ratethispodcast.com/private  Subscribe to the Private Parts Unknown YouTube channel to watch full-length video episodes and clips from the show. youtube

For the 118th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Gigi Engle, sex educator, soon-to-be sex therapist, and author of All the F*cking Mistakes: A Guide to Sex, Love, and Life. Today we’re doing a listener-requested episode. I got requests to cover praise kink and breeding kink, and I've been hearing a lot about both of them lately, so I invited Gigi Engle on the show to give us the 411. Gigi’s got bylines at top publications, and she’s really good at breaking this stuff down and unpacking the nuances, so she’s the perfect person to be our guide as we explore these two kinks and what they suggest about our culture. Gigi also shares her journey to becoming a sexpert, and the difference between a kink and a fetish.  For more from today's guest, Gigi Engle: Check out the 3Fun app, for which Gigi is the lead intimacy expert https://www.go3fun.co/faq.html Order Gigi's book All the F*cking Mistakes: A Guide to Sex, Love, and Life on Bookshop.org Follow Gigi Engle on Instagram @gigiengle

For the 117th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes another history-maker to the podcast: Maebe A. Girl, the first drag queen elected to public office in the U.S. She is currently a member of the Silver Lake Neighborhood Council, while also running for a seat in the U.S. House of Representatives to represent California's 30th Congressional District. Maebe uses she/they pronouns and identifies as trans and gender fluid. In this episode, first, you'll hear the story Courtney reported on Maebe A. Girl for KCRW, the local NPR affiliate based in Santa Monica, California, back in September 2019. The story, entitled "For Maebe A. Girl, gender nonconformity isn't her only political act," actually went on to win an LA Press Club Award for Gender/LGBT reporting. After the original radio story, Maebe A. Girl gives us an update on her life these days, including politics, drag, the competitive advantages of her third run for Congress, and her love life. For more from today's guest, Maebe A. Girl:

The 15-month effort to gain union recognition by dancers employed at the Star Garden Topless Dive Bar in North Hollywood, California, ended in victory this week. For the 116th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Velveeta, one of Star Garden's newly unionized strippers, to explain how this historic milestone came to be. On Monday, May 15th, lawyers representing the owners of the Star Garden withdrew all election challenges, agreed to recognize the union, and will meet with the Actors’ Equity Association across the bargaining table within 30 days to negotiate a first contract. The club also will reopen for business and bring back dancers who were dismissed last year. The spark that ignited the unionization campaign was lit in March of 2022 when the club’s security guards repeatedly failed to protect dancers from threatening and abusive behavior from patrons. Dancers were illegally fired for bringing concerns about safety and security to management. With the assistance of Strippers Uni

For the 115th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes lawyer turned OnlyFans model Jazmen Jafar. Jazmen’s story has gone viral lately and is unique in that she comes from a strict Middle Eastern, Iranian-American household, and after law school, she abandoned the legal profession to become a full-time adult content creator. But it’s paid off because she now earns three times what she made practicing law! In this episode, we discuss Jazmen Jafar’s journey from being a practicing attorney to being in the top 0.03% on OnlyFans, coming out to conservative parents, the changing cultural attitude towards sex work, promoting on Reddit, her Twitch strategy, tips for creators trying to make more money on OnlyFans, how to be a good fan on OnlyFans, and more. For more from today's guest, Jazmen Jafar: Check out Jazmen's website for all her links jazmenjafar.com Psst, Courtney has an 0nIyFan$, which is a horny way to support the show: https://linktr.ee/cocopeepshow Here's a playlist of our entire

Hi Privates! Today, I'm sharing a preview of one of my favorite podcasts: The Slutrepreneur Podcast. Join Ana Dee on her journey to financial freedom being a professional goddess in the adult industry, sharing the success and struggle of unconventional ways to make money from home. Today’s clip features her tips and tricks for the field of selling your dirty underwear online. Listen and learn how to start a side hustle selling your worn items safely and discreetly with the help of The Slutrepreneur’s Rulebook. For more from The Slutrepreneur Podcast: Listen to The Slutrepreneur Podcast wherever you listen to podcasts Episode 11. Weird Things I Sell on The Internet: Used Underwear on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-slutrepreneur-podcast/id1455421425?i=1000450138548 11. Weird Things I Sell on The Internet: Used Underwear on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7LJ2s8U0kjicqMMXidMGnP?si=AYPWnildQfWaI_rjZEmk9Q Find the show and more of her resources at ProfessionalGoddess.com

For the 114th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes happily married swingers Dave and Victoria Arena for an episode all about non-monogamy — swinging, in specific. And I have the perfect guests because they’ve been happily married and active in the lifestyle for decades. I met Dave and Victoria through a screenwriting workshop. They actually wrote a pilot for a TV series inspired by their swinger lifestyle. In real life, it began as innocent pillow talk, but when Victoria took the daring step to sign them up for a non-monogamy app, they had no idea what they were in for... But they quickly worked through that first awkward encounter and have been making it work ever since. Twenty years is a long time to be happily swinging with your partner, so in this episode, we'll learn their secrets for lasting so long in the lifestyle. We also explore how they first became swingers, their initial rules, how they prioritize their relationship, the joys of sex clubs, and the swinging scene in Cleve

For the 113th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Allison Moon, sex educator and author of "Girl Sex 101" and "Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-Free Sex." In this "Quickie" episode, we’re going to help you unlock how to pleasure vulva owners with simple hand and oral sex techniques. We discuss the importance of communication, understanding anatomy, and paying attention to your partner's body language and reactions. We also touch on the topic of fisting, sharing tips for beginners, and debunking misconceptions about the practice.  For more from today's guest, Allison Moon: Order Girl Sex 101 from Bookshop.org Check out Allison's website alliedmoon.com Connect with Allison on Instagram @allison_moon Psst, Courtney has an 0nIyFan$, which is a horny way to support the show: https://linktr.ee/cocopeepshow Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds If you

Are you a fan of adult entertainment? Then you've got to listen to one of my favorite podcasts: Holly Randall Unfiltered. In this sample from Holly's show, the iconic performer Adriana Chechick joins Holly for an interview that shows Adriana's MANY sides! You’ll hear about her upbringing in foster care, her honest reflections on career regrets, and why she finds gangbangs empowering. Adriana will surprise you with her brutally honest insight into a storied career that brought her so much fame... and why she has decided to leave it all behind. For more from Holly Randall Unfiltered: Listen to Holly Randall Unfiltered wherever you listen to podcasts Check out the Holly Randall Unfiltered website hollyrandallunfiltered.com Psst, Courtney has an 0nIyFan$, which is a horny way to support the show: https://linktr.ee/cocopeepshow Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds If you love this episode, please

For the 112th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Zachary Zane, sex columnist for Men's Health and Cosmo and author of the upcoming Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto. Speaking of which, Zach is back on the podcast with an exciting announcement: His debut memoir is out in May, and you can preorder it now! On today's podcast, we get into polyamory and kink, assessing your sexual risk and the level you're comfortable with, the difference between bisexuality and pansexuality, the pros and cons of Grindr culture, the impact of OCD on Zach's sexual awakening, and so much more. We also discuss the unfortunate ubiquitousness of sexual shame, regardless of how or where you grew up, and unpack the definitions of freysexual, demisexual, metamour, and polycule. For more from today's guest, Zachary Zane: Order Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto Subscribe to the Boyslut newsletter zacharyzane.substack.com/welcome Check out Zach's website zacharyzane.com Connect with Zach on Instagram @zacharyza