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This week I dive into the 3rd agreement & how we get distracted and out of alignment and into confusion by being focused on doing THE best versus being and doing OUR best. I discuss why we struggle with doing our best as well as why we have difficulty expressing and cutting off things that aren't the best for us. If you'd like to skip past the intro story that may be triggering you can jump ahead to time stamp 17:11 I'm doing a series on the only expectations that I'm agreeing to going forward, you can start the series HERE with "don't take anything personally" Ways to Support me for FREE: Let the Ads play (I know it sucks) Leave a review below, I'm vulnerable & when you give that back it affirms me more than you know OR send me a DM. If you fancy you can do both xoxo Watch the visuals on Youtube & Subscribe Follow @_thebankruptmillionaire on IG & repost something or leave a comment i read ALLLLL of them You can join my community that meets weekly, get access to my 300+ video catalog or acc

Moving on to the next of the four agreements. In this episode we go into ways that I meausure what impeccable means to me. Is it honest, respectful & consistent and not just with me but do you uphold that standard in your own life and do you require that of those who are around you?  Did you hear the agreement before this one? dont take it personal? Here it is Ways to support me for FREE: let the Ads play (i know it sucks) Watch the visuals on Youtube & Subscribe (currently uploading give it a sec lol) Repost a reel from social media Leave a comment under a video or leave me a review for the podcast I read allll of my dm's but if you all could publicly share how I have helped that means so much as well You can join my community that meets weekly, get access to my 300+ video catalog or access my previous projects and podcasts with all my Links here. 

This is a convo that I revisit often. Often times we follow the path that seems crystal clear that shows the next 10 steps but it may not be the path with the most clarity or lack of confusion. I went bankrupt following a plan that was crystal clear. But there was rarely any clarity, I was constantly confused.  Support me for FREE: Watch on Youtube Let the Ads play during the episode (I know it sucks) Repost on socials Leave a comment under a video or leave a review I love reading them and read them all  You can join my community where we do weekly calls and have access to my 300+ video catalog from all my previous projects by seeing all my links here.

Here's another convo I shared on Youtube going forward I'll share them here as well.  If it resonates or you'd like to support me for FREE: Watch on youtube Repost on socials  leave a review or comment under the video I read them!!! Let the Ads play on the episode xoxo If you'd like to join my community for our weekly calls and get access to my entire catalog of over 300 videos of content you can checkout all my links here.

I started posting some random downloads and discussions that I've had with myself & thought it would be selfish not to share.  These came out on my socials already but adding them here and going forward I will add them here as well. Don't worry a new episode drops tonight its exporting as we speak!  Here are ways to support me for FREE: pressing play on youtube or reposting the video to you stories or leaving a comment! Don't forget to leave a review below xoxo.  All my Links are here if youd like to join my community where we meet weekly and access to my 300+ video catalog of my previous projects   

I've been a lover of the Four Agreements for a while but as I'm starting over and auditing my life figuring out where I went wrong and understanding how I overcommitted myself and was consistently creating a sturdy case for burnout ... I had to go back and ask myself what did i miss and did I really integrate the principles entirely? Yes we change often but we aren't just talking about a mistake we are talking bankruptcy. So far gone the only option is to burn it down and start over. So why was I so overcommited? Was I taking what other people had going on in their life more personal than I thought? And why was what I actually needed not personal enough? All My links here & Full Video on Youtube The Book Clarity isn't Crystal Clear

Co-creating with the universe means you'll never know. All you can do is what you believe is right and if nothing else ask does this align with my soul. Detach from the outcome & give yourself permission to go with the flow. It doesn't have to be perfect but you do have to start. Hey suga's we'll talk soon xoxo This week I answered the question: How Am I ok going from a millionaire to bankrupt  You can join my weekly community andd get access to all my previous creative works andd courses HERE See a tour of my Van HERE

To my Not Just Another Sex Podcast Family, on this 75th & Final Episode of NJASP (Please add dramatic tone)  You can't really end something that was created in love, it simple evolves. Not Just Another Sex Podcast served & will continue to serve a purpose-- creating a safe space for growth, healing, and real conversations no matter where you are & most importantly furthering the community I've been building for 7 years. I'm endlessly grateful for this community & the patience, grace & true compassion you all extended to me in realtime as I navigated life during the show. The show will continue to live on for those that need it, but for me it's time to explore a new chapter. I'm excited to invite you into my next project The Bankrupt Millionaire- a solo journey into the lessons, resilience and transformations that life has required of me to step into who I'm becomig. Sharing not only how I became a millionaire by 30 & how I went Bankrupt by 33. This new space will go deeper, it will be

Y'all I enjoyed this episode so much, this sit down with Candyys Love was just as amazing as her book "Remember Who the F*ck You Are" this entire show has been dedicated to my healing journey & so there was no better way to close out this journey than with a guest who makes it known that she takes her healing journey very seriously. Candyys journey started with her navigating & understanding her grief. After a prayer asking God to take all the things out of her life andheal her she lost everything she ownedd the same night in a fire. Talk about a heard prayer, she took that as a sign andd the rest is history. From traveling the worldd in her healing van and gaining a following to solitude & healing after 4 years she met her love & another chapter in her journey emerged. Individually & collectively she has been sharing her story that you too can quiet everything aroundd you and get back to who you are without giving your power to other things to do it. Candyss is very passionate about drivi

If you've been listening to this show or following me then you know how special of a sit down this was for me. My first check came from writing with XONecole and here we are years later. Necole has built brand after brand and has been sharing her stories of success and lessons but her current business is one that women have needed. MyHappyFlo her women's wellness brand has been tackling fibroids and other menstrual and hormonal issues that women are having and the results have been amazing. Necole credits her memories with her mother and the overwhelming cry that has been ignored in the healthcare system for her desire to create change and show up fully for other women. The pain of your cycle has to be addressed and women deserve to be heard. Outside of that we discussed what does life look like now? Hobbies and love and of course pleasure. This interview covered everything! MyHappyFlo Watch on Youtube Vanlife "I am Home"

Sitting down with Paul was a great time you may know him on social media as @Pauls.Law serving up raw diets, healing advice and a completely unique look on bringing awareness to sickness that is right under our noses! Paul's spiritual awakening kind of hit him out of no where one minute his life was fine and the next he was painfully aware that this wasn't the life he wanted and thats when change began. Paul's straight forward approach to the truth has grown his social media sites as well as his herb store!  Checkout our Guest @pauls.law Only 2 more Episodes left before we air our Final episode of NJASP be sure to follow me on socials to stay in the know about what's next @miabuggzy @thecharlievancafe

Ever wonder why people accept religion but reject spirtuality? Is it the level of accountability that spirtuality takes? I got a chance to sit down with the Critical Thinking Advocate also known as Jasmine's Garden on all your favorite socials and we recived gem after gem as well some insight into her path into spirtuality. Jasmine has taken her viral posts & not only created community but a platform for herself not only teaching her marketing skills but also using her spiritual gifts to uplift and enlighten the community. Don't get it twisted its not in the 'woo woo' delivery that you may be used to its raw and real and it just might trigger you if you're not ready to digest it. Don't worry this episode is like a glass of water to wash it down The event mentioned in the episode has passed but checkout her link here to see what event is next!  Watch this Episode & catch up on my content on Youtube HERE  Join us every Sunday on Patreon where my community meets on Zoom 

From JujuMama to the Progressive Love Academy this couple has been in the Poly space for over 20 years, they've built their careers around teaching others the tools needed to build a foundation for any type of relationship that they consent to having. In this interview I got a chance to ask Kenya & Carl questions about their teachings and what I loved was the steps being taught are things that should be addressed in any relationship type. From our session on Patreon to here years later it was amazing to finally meet in person. The energy on screen was beautiful so don't forget to checkout the visuals on Youtube! Guests: Carl & Kenya K. Stevens Please checkout my latest Van Post & be sure to join us every Sunday (weekly) & the last Wednesday of the month where we meet live. By joining my PATREON you get access to Over 300 workshops, bonus episodes, event replays as well as community meetings weekly! 

I've been wanting to do a conversation with all women something a little different and so I decided to call some of the girls that I've sat down with before that I share similar work background with and open the floor to some girl talk! This episode had lots of laughs and a way for us to open the floor to what different types of women are expereincing in the bedroom currently. We also discussed how we've changed and whats new and the misconceptions about how easy it is to find a good intimate partner!  Guests: Mikki Bey, Ashley Cobb & Nikkita Grady Full visuals available on my Patreon (available for free) it got a little spicey so the entire episode is not available on youtube but a portion of it will be! Just safer to have it on Patreon check it out! Visuals go up within 24 hours of this post! This is the last week to grab Thigh high socks and yoni products before my store closes this is a major inventory blowout sale and ends the last day of February 2025.  Want more time with me? Join me every Sundday

I got chance to speak with the founder of the Women in Radio conference Meaghan Taylor, despite putting on this conference for 9 years this is her first podcast interview! Not only did we discuss how sometimes it's our need for community that drives us to create something new but she also was so kind to share some inimate parts of her journey as well. For the S*x tip of the day we decided to discuss a different side, health. After removing a 5 pound fibroid from her uterus & changing her diet Meaghan shares how she realized stress was apart of them returning.  Follow our guest & grab your tickets to this year's Women in Radio Conference held in Atlanta, GA.  Follow my Patreon, shop my closing sale for all thigh high socks & watch the I am Home Teaser with the link HERE ! Part 1 of Art XXXhibit 2023 is also live on Patreon!   

We often discuss the problems of being the first in your family to do something but I wanted to dig deeper and talk to someone who doesn't understand the concept of starting from scratch & what better person to do that with than Lauren Miller a 2nd generation business owner who spares no details in her upbringing. Lauren was a knee deep world traveler when she was one day required to stop everything & care for her father but before he left he taught her everything that she knows. Caring for a loved one while also learning how to carry on the legacy are two heavy tasks but in this episode we dive into the resilience and importance of continuing the legacy & the power it leaves to those who come after us to by someone who is experiencing it in real time. We can't discuss starting forever it times to discuss what comes next. Be sure to Watch the Youtube version HERE ! Follow Our Guest  Checkout my Link HERE to: Shop our Blowout Closing Sale on all items! View Part 1 of NJASP First Live Show (Final

Picking up where we left off! Be sure to checkout announcements below! In this episode I got a chance to sit down with Brittany Rogers, LCPC. Brittany takes a new age approach to counseling, mental health & reaching our community with the support that it needs. Being the owner of Be The Change Therapeutic Services, Author, Viral thought leader & Reoccurring voice on the Tonight's Conversation Podcast she has been making her way to those who need the help even if they haven't had a 1 on 1 session with her.  On her personal platform Brittany has also started a series about everything she's learned while being single for 10 years! Standing on her boundaries & choosing healthy over hookups this episode is full of laughs like 2 homegirls catching up! Be sure to watch the Youtube version as well the next day, remember your views help more than you know! If you have not seen my latest announcement HERE then I am saddened to sharee this is the start of the final 10 episodes of NJASP. Tune into the final

Ever wonder how the universe can be your best friend? In this Solo with Samia episode, Samia shares her latest adventures, like making new friends with earthy girls and how the universe is bringing amazing people into her life.  Catch more convos with James-  What Men Want Panel Youtube audio EP 34 Everyone Is Poly Youtube  audio EP 25 You Look Like You Take Care Of Yourself  Youtube Audio Blue Lotus Beauty Oil - @spacetimevita Looking for advertising oppurtunities? DM us "ADVERTISE" on Instagram @Semedia.group Or Email us at SEMediaGroupSB@gmail.com for more information  Check out Patreon for more BONUS CONTENT and weekly discussions. Get Your Thigh High Socks HERE! Use code NJASP at checkout for 15% off  www.thesexualessentials.com Connect with Samia  IG: @Miabuggzy @notjustanothersexpod  @thecharlievancafe  

On this episode of Solos with Samia, Samia speaks directly to her tribe shares how the last couple of months have been, how she got through eclipse season, and what’s been going on at SE Media Group.  Also, if you miss Samia while she is away the first place updated is Patreon so if you want to keep tabs on Samia sign up as a member (it’s free

Are you ready to redefine your idea of travel and adventure? Join us this week as Iana, and Kas, join forces to share their insights as the masterminds behind Paradise and Vibe. We dive into topics like manifesting your dreams through travel, navigating solo adventures as a single woman, and finding freedom in luxury experiences. Tune in to uncover the secrets of making your childhood dreams a reality. With Paradise and Vibe, every journey becomes an opportunity for transformation and discovery! Other topics discussed are:  Travel isn't about leaving our homes but about leaving our habits  Travel destination shaming  Explore mini-retirements  Samia’ experience studying abroad in Brazil   Luxury is about freedom time and experience  Glamping in Morocco  Samias travel bucket list Transitioning to van life  9th house of astrology  Looking for advertising oppurtunities? DM us "ADVERTISE" on Instagram @Semedia.group Or Email us at SEMediaGroupSB@gmail.com for more information  Check out Patreon for more BONUS C