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Question and answer style format to discuss money, sex and spirituality especially for those dealing with questions concerning sexual orientation or an LGBTq lifestyle . We explore issues related to sexuality and spirituality that will address struggles to accept yourself. LGBTq welcome. Write me at or call 510-882-0962.


  • The Value of Objectivity- Emotional Healing from Guilt and Shame

    The Value of Objectivity- Emotional Healing from Guilt and Shame

    19/08/2014 Duración: 27min

    The last few weeks we have talked about complicated or difficult people.  This week we are going apply the tool of objectivity. This may involve an overly invested mother-in-law, a guilting mother of your own, a person with an addiction, or just someone whose opinion you take personally. I'm sure you are tired of being hurt by the things these challenging people say, the guilt you feel at their comments, or the anger that they have power over you.  The joy of living your life without guilt is just too good not to strive for. We will break the solution down so you can apply the answer to any situation. It doesn't matter what belief system you subscribe to: Catholic, Christian, athiest. We all have the same battle with guilt and shame from stressful people in our lives. Freedom from shame and guilt are the rewards and are well worth the journey.

  • Problem People and How to Deal with Them

    Problem People and How to Deal with Them

    12/08/2014 Duración: 28min

    Whether they are your lover, your family, or your friends, when complicated relationships rear their ugly head, many of us fall into an old pattern and can't find a way out. Do you "always give in?" Are you the one who always feels responsible? Are you tired of something you just can't change?     Discovering a new way of looking at the complicated people in your life can give you a new lease on life. Hope is a powerful tool. Happiness is the goal. All of these require the ability to understand your role in healthy relationships, to recognize an unhealthy one, and to take the small steps that ultimately change your life permanently.    If you have been in the self-help community for years and still have a gnawing issue, let's talk. You don't need any more methods. You have the tools! My gift is helping you see when and where to use them for the longest lasting return on your emotional investment. If you are going through a divorce or separation, have money management issues, codependency, or identity str

  • Complicated relationships

    Complicated relationships

    05/08/2014 Duración: 29min

    Complicated relationships. We all have them. A mother who guilts you on a daily basis, the bad boyfriend who is more similar to your last few boyfriends than you would like to admit, and the son or daughter who is rejecting. How do you grab your life back from these constantly painful relationships that makes you feel like a failure. Can you be spiritual and still get caught in these cycles?  Is there a way to heal, so you don't repeat these same relationships? Why do we end up feeling like our needs are second to every one else's needs? In today's show, I discuss potential relationships and their problems, but I don't  stop there. I look at these typically challenging relationships with a different set of eyes.  The greatest way to get freedom from one of these thorns is the kind of change that allows  you to live with what you cannot change anyway. The benefits are a longer, healthier life  and happier relationships with the other people in your life. Feeling better emotionally  and physically res

  • Brick Building- Achieve your goals incrementally

    Brick Building- Achieve your goals incrementally

    29/07/2014 Duración: 30min

    Have you attended motivational weekends and read all there is to know about manifesting and positive thinking, only to be disappointed? I believe the whole movement that promotes achieving goals through your attitude often frustrates and disappoints us with our personal in ability to attain it- dare we say failure? What if I told you that all the tools you have acquired in your toolbox, your arsenal, is just lying dormant waiting for the ignition and that starts with a very small start- a flicker, a flame. Tune in for the show "Brick Building- Achieve your goals incrementally" Tuesday, July 29th at noon and find out what anyone can do anywhere anytime to get the ball rolling toward their own empowerment, achievemnent, and dreams.    

  • Bipolar and spirituality-One womans struggle to find her light

    Bipolar and spirituality-One woman's struggle to find her light

    22/07/2014 Duración: 26min

    Today's I share my own life's journey from losing a brother to the disease of bipolar to facing what might be my greatest achievement. If you wonder how you can claim to be spiritual or Christian or to trust any force greater than yourself and take medication for bipolar disorder or any number of other conditions, you probably don't talk about. This is the place to find out we all feel the same way. It is shameful and weak to need medication, right? Hear both sides of the story and decide for yourself. Beth Maree tackles the issues by relaying her personal struggles. Bring your comments and questions to the show Tues Noon 

  • Grown-up or Adult? Which one are you?

    Grown-up or Adult? Which one are you?

    15/07/2014 Duración: 24min

    So you full grown height wise and hopefully a comfortable size weight wise, but do you live from your core? Do you know yourself as an emotionally and spiritually integrated human being? Believe it or not, most people walk around only connected to a fraction of who they are, a fraction of their strength because unsettled issues are roaring inside. Just silence them, right? TV, addictions, even over done spirituality can be barriers to your truth.   Let's talk and see if we can open the dialogue to explore the rumble in your soul. The silent giant. Even if you have "done your work" if you are not fully integrated, there is another step to take. Call my show on BlogTalkRadio Tuesdays at 12PM at (347) 850-1865. Or write to me at

  • Lets talk taboos among your family and friends

    Let's talk taboos among your family and friends

    08/07/2014 Duración: 20min

    If you are struggling with your gender identity you are probably concerned that somebody is going to judge you. You may even be concerned about losing your job, your friends even your family. That is a very lonely place to be. For those struggling with LGBTq lifestyles, the fact that you feel so natural about who you are attracted to and yet it doesn't seem like those you love the most will understand is confusing. Where can you go to talk about your concerns and ask the question, " Am I 'normal?' ". That is what this show is for. I have been a Catholic, a born again Christian and studied Eastern religion as well. Is there a place for you to fit in?  What can we do together to empower you? Honest open communication without shame will bring freedom from fear the of rejection. As we talk openly, I hope you will see yourself as the amazing creature you were intended to be.  Please call in to my show Tuesdays at 12PM at (347) 850-1865 or anytime at 510-882-0962. You can talk honestly and openly. Homosexuality,

  • Can I be spiritual and sexual? The struggle for sexual identity and religion

    Can I be spiritual and sexual? The struggle for sexual identity and religion

    01/07/2014 Duración: 15min

    So many people struggle with sexuality and spirituality. What if instead of clashing they actually go hand in hand? What if your sexuality can lead to personal empowerment? The greatest love one can know is the acceptance of self and then sharing that love with another. Feel free to call and talk to me about how you struggle to embrace your sexual identity and see how we unlock the truth of your personal beauty and strength. I embrace those involved in Christianity and Catholicism as well as those who identify as LGBTq, lesbian, gay, bi-sexual, transgender, queer or cross-dressers. I also welcome those who struggle witth infidelity, ography, and sexual addiction.  You can reach me by email at or by phone at 510-882-0962.