Dr. Caroline Leaf Podcast

What if the apology you’re waiting for never comes? In this powerful episode, Dr. Caroline Leaf unpacks how to move on when someone never acknowledges the pain they caused. You’ll learn how unresolved hurt affects your brain and body—and how to rewire your healing from the inside out. Backed by neuroscience, packed with practical tools, and grounded in emotional truth, this episode will help you let go of resentment, reclaim your power, and find peace—whether or not you ever hear “I’m sorry.”

In this episode, I unpack one of life's hardest decisions: when to stay and work through challenges—and when it’s time to move on for the sake of your mental and emotional health. You'll learn how to tune into the signals your mind and body are sending you, recognize when discomfort leads to growth versus harm, and use simple mind-management tools from my new book Help in a Hurry to build clarity and resilience. Key highlights: How to tell the difference between growth pain and toxic stress The role of neuroplasticity in healing after hard decisions Simple mindset shifts to help you move forward with confidence Reflective questions to guide your next right step You are not stuck. You are not powerless. Your mind holds the wisdom you need to choose your next chapter. Pre-order my new book here and get over $900 worth of amazing bonuses (and a chance to work 1:1 with me!): https://helpinahurrybook.com/ SPONSORS MAKING THIS SHOW POSSIBLE: Pique Tea: If you’re tired of feeling depleted and want to finally n

In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with my dear friend and transformational life coach, Craig Siegel, to explore what it truly means to reinvent your mind and your life. Craig shares his powerful personal story — from the high-pressure world of Wall Street to becoming a bestselling author and thought leader — and how rewiring his own mindset through intentional neuroplasticity led him to a more meaningful, purpose-driven life. Together, we unpack the science and strategy behind reinvention, mindset shifts, and conscious connection — and how you can apply these tools to build authentic relationships, overcome imposter syndrome, and unlock mental resiliencefor personal and professional growth.

Description: Ever wonder if that gut feeling is fear or intuition? In this episode, I break down how to tell the difference—and how to calm anxiety so you can hear your inner wisdom clearly. You’ll learn: 1. The science behind anxiety and intuition 2. Why anxiety stems from fear, past experiences, and “what-if” thinking 3. How intuition is actually a signal from your nonconscious mind rooted in wisdom 4. Key ways to distinguish between a fearful spiral and an intuitive nudge 5. Quick, practical tools to calm anxiety and tune into your inner guidance Pre-order my new book here and get over $900 worth of amazing bonuses (and a chance to work 1:1 with me!): https://helpinahurrybook.com/ Sponsors making this episode possible: BIOPTIMIZERS MAGNESIUM BREAKTHROUGH: Nourish your brain and body with Magnesium Breakthrough now. For an exclusive offer go to bioptimizers.com/drleaf and use promo code DRLEAF10 during checkout to save 10 percent.  BRANCH BASICS: Right now, our listeners get 15% off the Premium Starter Kit

Pre-order my new book here and get over $900 worth of amazing bonuses (and a chance to work 1:1 with me!): https://helpinahurrybook.com/ Description: Do you feel exhausted even after a whole night’s sleep or a seemingly restful weekend? You might unknowingly be caught in mindless habits slowly wearing you down. In this episode, Jessica breaks down five common, sneaky habits that drain your mental and physical energy—from chaotic multitasking to overstimulation from tech and shallow breathing. These aren’t just bad habits—they’re signs your mind is running on empty. Tune in to learn: Why your messy desk might be stressing you out more than you realize How "milkshake multitasking" scrambles your focus The surprising science behind why doing nothing is actually doing something powerful Simple tools like "thinker moments" and deep breathing to reboot your mind and restore energy These quick neuroscience-backed tips will help you stop the spiral of overwhelm, create calm, and start feeling like yourself agai

Pre-order my new book here and get over $900 worth of amazing bonuses (and a chance to work 1:1 with me!): https://helpinahurrybook.com/ Description: Dopamine isn’t just the “feel-good” chemical—it’s your brain’s motivation engine. In this episode, I unpack the real science behind dopamine, debunk common myths, and reveal how modern life hijacks your brain’s reward system. Learn how to take back control using the Neurocycle method and start rewiring your brain for focus, drive, and long-term fulfillment. It’s not about detoxing dopamine—it’s about resetting it, training your mind to crave what truly serves you. Sponsors making this episode possible: BiOptimizers Magnesium Breakthrough: Nourish your brain and body with Magnesium Breakthrough now. For an exclusive offer, go to bioptimizers.com/drleaf and use promo code DRLEAF10 during checkout to save 10 percent. 

Pre-order my new book here and get over $900 worth of amazing bonuses (and a chance to work 1:1 with me!): https://helpinahurrybook.com/ In this insightful episode I sit down with Jeff Krasno, author of Good Stress: The Health Benefits of Doing Hard Things. Jeff shares his personal journey from a diabetes diagnosis to reclaiming health through embracing life's challenges. We delve into the concept of 'good stress'—how practices like fasting, cold exposure, and engaging in difficult conversations can enhance physiological, psychological, and social well-being. Jeff also discusses the evolutionary mismatch between our ancestors' stressors and today's comforts, offering practical strategies to harness stress for growth and resilience. Tune in to discover how doing hard things can lead to a healthier, more vibrant life! Get Jeff's book here: https://onecommune.mykajabi.com/goodstressbook?preview_theme_id=2159005940 Sponsors making this episode possible:  ZOCDOC: Stop putting off those doctors’ appointments and g

Pre-order my new book here and get over $900 worth of amazing bonuses (and a chance to work 1:1 with me!): https://helpinahurrybook.com/ Are FOBO (Fear of Better Options) and FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) running your life? The constant chase for the “best” choice can leave you mentally drained, stuck in decision paralysis, and dissatisfied—even when you do decide. In this episode, we break down Barry Schwartz’s Paradox of Choice and uncover the hidden mental costs of overchoice. Learn four powerful strategies—including pre-deciding, setting digital boundaries, and using the Neurocycle—to clear the chaos, simplify decisions, and take back control of your mind. Tune in and start thinking deeply, living intentionally, and hacking your brain for a better life! Sponsors making this episode possible: PUORI: Right now you get an amazing 20% off their health products, or if you choose their already discounted subscription, you get almost a third off the price! Available when you visit my exclusive URL Puori.com/DRLEAFa

Pre-order my new book here and get over $900 worth of amazing bonuses (and a chance to work 1:1 with me!): https://helpinahurrybook.com/ What if a few mindset shifts could change everything? In this episode, I’m sharing 7 life-changing truths that can transform the way you think, feel, and interact with the world. From managing expectations without resentment to setting healthy boundaries, embracing rest, and making kindness your superpower—these insights will help you rewire your mind for more peace, wisdom, and resilience. Sponsors making this episode possible: AG1: AG1 is offering new subscribers a FREE $76 gift when you sign up. You'll get a Welcome Kit, a bottle of D3K2 AND 5 free travel packs in your first box. So make sure to check out DrinkAG1.com/mentalmess to get this offer!  Ancient Nutrition: Ancient Nutrition is offering 25% off your first order when you go to AncientNutrition.com/DRLEAF Ollie Dog Food: Give your pup a fresh start this new year by letting them taste test a personalized meal

Pre-order my new book here and get over $900 worth of amazing bonuses (and a chance to work 1:1 with me!): https://helpinahurrybook.com/ Want to hack your brain for a better life? In this episode, we’re diving into five science-backed psychological "cheat codes" that can help you build better connections, stop overthinking, and boost confidence—all with the power of neuroscience. From the magic of asking for favors to the game-changing 3-second eye contact rule, these simple tricks are backed by your brain’s wiring. Tune in to learn how to make your mind work for you instead of against you! Sponsors making this episode possible: PUORI: Right now you get an amazing 20% off their health products, or if you choose their already discounted subscription, you get almost a third off the price! Available when you visit my exclusive URL Puori.com/DRLEAFand use my promo code DRLEAF, or save 20% off when you make a one-time purchase. BIOPTIMIZERS MUSHROOM BREAKTHROUGH: For an exclusive offer for my listeners go to BiOp

Pre-order my new book here and get over $900 worth of amazing bonuses (and a chance to work 1:1 with me!): https://helpinahurrybook.com/ Is hustle culture crushing your well-being? It’s time to rethink success. In this episode, we dive into the ‘Soft Life’—a movement that isn’t about laziness but radical self-preservation. Learn how rejecting burnout, prioritizing rest, and rewiring your brain can lead to sustainable happiness. I’ll share personal insights, neuroscience-backed strategies, and practical ways to step off the productivity treadmill. Ready to redefine success on your terms? Let’s do it together. Sponsors making this episode possible: Pouri: Right now you get an amazing 20% off their health products, or if you choose their already discounted subscription, you get almost a third off the price! Available when you visit my exclusive URL Puori.com/DRLEAF and use my promo code DRLEAF • Or save 20% off when you make a one-time purchase - still such great savings. Bioptimizers: For an exclusive offer for

Pre-order my new book here and get over $900 worth of amazing bonuses (and a chance to work 1:1 with me!): https://helpinahurrybook.com/ You’ve probably heard me talk about being *wired for love*, but did you know that optimism isn’t just about being positive all the time? That’s not realistic! In this episode, I dive into the science of optimism—how it shapes our brains, boosts resilience, and even improves our health. But here’s the catch: the *right* kind of optimism isn’t just about seeing the bright side—it’s about balancing hope with realism (and yes, even a little bit of pessimism!). I’ll share practical tips to help you develop a mindset that fuels growth, problem-solving, and real success. Let’s find that *Goldilocks* sweet spot together! Sponsors making this episode possible: -Ancient Nutrition: Ancient Nutrition is offering 25% off your first order when you go to AncientNutrition.com/DRLEAF. -Hero: I love that Hero has monthly small batch drops of indulgent favorites like the popular two gram net c

Pre-order my new book here and get over $900 worth of amazing bonuses (and a chance to work 1:1 with me!): https://helpinahurrybook.com/ New Year's resolutions? Overdone. Instead, imagine your deathbed. Inspired by a Wall Street Journal article on Panera Bread founder Ron Schaich, this episode explores the power of a premortem—a life audit that ensures you won’t wait until the end to decide if you’re proud of your life. From Buddhist teachings to Oliver Burkeman’s Four Thousand Weeks, I share how this practice reshaped my own priorities after a personal tragedy. What can you do in the next five years that you’ll respect looking back from your deathbed? Tune in for a perspective shift that just might change your life. Sponsors making this episode possible: -PUORI: I have an amazing deal for you: right now you get an amazing 20% off, or if you choose their already discounted subscription, you get almost a third off the price! Available when you visit my exclusive URL Puori.com/DRLEAF and use my promo code DRLEA

Pre-order my new book here and get over $900 worth of amazing bonuses (and a chance to work 1:1 with me!): https://helpinahurrybook.com/ Did you know that ruminating on loneliness is more linked to depression than actual loneliness? In this episode, we dive into the science of QZE—your brain's constant state of growth based on what you focus on—and how to shift your thoughts in the right direction. Learn how a simple "QZE Mindshift" using the Neurocycle can break the rumination-depression cycle and transform loneliness into meaningful connection. Tune in for practical steps and the surprising power of talking to strangers. Don’t forget to rate, review, and share this episode—it truly helps the show grow. Sponsors making this episode possible: -APOSTROPHE: Get your first visit for only five dollars at Apostrophe.com/DRLEAF when you use our code: DRLEAF. That’s a savings of fifteen dollars! This code is only available to my listeners. 

Pre-order my new book here and get over $900 worth of amazing bonuses (and a chance to work 1:1 with me!): https://helpinahurrybook.com/ it’s time for some real talk. In this episode, I dive into a topic that hits close to home for so many of us — childhood trauma and how it shapes who we are today. Let’s face it, what we experience when we're young leaves a lasting impact on our mental, emotional, and even physical health. But here's the thing: just focusing on the bad stuff can keep us stuck in the past. I break down the groundbreaking research on Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) and how they’re linked to long-term health issues. But I also shine a light on something just as important — Positive Childhood Experiences (PCEs) and how they can help heal and build resilience, even if you've had a rough start in life. Healing isn’t about ignoring the negative, but it’s also not about getting lost in it. I share practical tips like balancing your memories of the past and practicing the 3:1 thought ratio — a p

Pre-order my new book here and get over $900 worth of amazing bonuses (and a chance to work 1:1 with me!): https://helpinahurrybook.com/ In this episode, we explore the profound difference between kindness and niceness. While niceness often prioritizes comfort and approval, kindness is rooted in genuine care, bravery, and authenticity. Discover why being kind—not just nice—fosters trust, deeper connections, and long-term growth. You’ll also learn about the science of kindness, from its biochemical benefits like releasing dopamine and oxytocin to its proven impact on mental health. Plus, I’ll share practical tips for incorporating kindness into your daily routine, including the ideal ratio of compliments to criticisms (hint: it’s 5.6:1!) and how acts of kindness can create a ripple effect of well-being. Don’t forget to rate, review, and share this episode—it truly helps the show grow. Register for my annual New Years Brain Detox Challenge here: https://drleaf.com/pages/brain-detox-challenge Sponsors making th

Pre-order my new book here and get over $900 worth of amazing bonuses (and a chance to work 1:1 with me!): https://helpinahurrybook.com/ Have you ever felt triggered, ready to react, but wished for a guiding hand to pull you back to calm? In this episode, Cultivating Calm When Feeling Triggered, we explore how you can become that guiding hand for yourself. Packed with science-backed strategies and personal insights, this episode will empower you to respond thoughtfully instead of reacting impulsively. Highlights include: "Isn't This Interesting" Technique: Learn how a simple 60-second pause can create space for calm and insight, turning triggering moments into opportunities for growth. The Power of Immediate Gratitude: Discover how practicing gratitude for even the smallest things can shift your mind into healing theta and learning gamma brainwaves, rewiring your perspective. Trigger Sips: A breathing technique designed to soothe your nervous system and bring clarity in moments of distress. Register for

In this podcast, I dive into powerful tips on transforming your relationship with stress by shifting how you perceive and process it. It's a game-changing episode designed to help you start the new year with a fresh mindset and a renewed sense of control. Don't miss this opportunity to turn stress into a tool for growth and resilience! Register for my annual New Years Brain Detox Challenge here: https://drleaf.com/pages/brain-detox-challenge Sponsors making this episode possible: -ANCIENT NUTRITION: Ancient Nutrition is offering 25% off your first order when you go to AncientNutrition.com/DRLEAF -AG1: AG1 is offering new subscribers a FREE $76 gift when you sign up. You'll get a Welcome Kit, a bottle of D3K2 AND 5 free travel packs in your first box. So make sure to check out DrinkAG1.com/mentalmess to get this offer! Research studies mentioned in this episode: https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2018/04/180417130111.htm https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23327269/ https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3

In this podcast I share the one phrase that may be limiting your growth and slowing down your healing. I also share what to say instead, and how to frame words so they don't negatively affect your mental health. Register for my annual New Years Brain Detox Challenge here: https://drleaf.com/pages/brain-detox-challenge Sponsors making this episode possible: -PURITY WOODS: Honestly, I have never seen a natural skincare product of this quality at this reasonable of a price point! And thankfully, the good people at Purity Woods have a special coupon code specifically for my listeners, so you can try it for yourself for 27% off today. Just go to puritywoods.com/MENTALMESS or enter MENTALMESS at checkout. -FATTY15: Fatty15 is on a mission to replenish your C15 levels and restore your long-term health! You can now get an additional 15% off their 90-day subscription Starter Kit by going to fatty15.com/DRLEAF and using code DRLEAF at checkout for an additional 15% off your first order!  -AG1: AG1 is offering new su

Felling a relationship lull? In this episode I share my favourite and most effective tip to supercharge any relationships. Register for my annual New Years Brain Detox Challenge here: https://drleaf.com/pages/brain-detox-challenge Sponsors making this episode possible: -ZocDoc: Go to Zocdoc.com/LEAF and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then start your search for a top-rated doctor today. Many are available within 24 hours!