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Text the Critellis HEREThis week, we are highlighting the godfather of voguing, Willi Ninja as our #QueerHistory. After catching the attention of director Jennie Livingston and being the subject of the critically-acclaimed documentary Paris is Burning, Willi Ninja and voguing became a mainstay of ballroom and popular culture. His contribution to queer people as a whole is unparalleled, and the reason we are so excited to tell his story on this week’s episode. Then, Marko and Tony sit down to talk about the decision to get married, why it made sense for them, and what their union means to themselves and each other. Is Marko a good husband? Was marriage the right decision for Tony? All these questions were answered during this week’s conversation. Then, for the season 5 finale, the guys bring you the June edition of Listener Sh!tuations, where they answer your relationship questions and give you guidance, Critelli-style.Articles:TIME: Gays and Lesbians Have Different Reasons to Get Gay Married, Study SaysTIME:

Text the Critellis HERELGBTQ+ rights activist and DOMA fighter, Edith Windsor is this week’s #QueerHistory. After meeting and falling in love with Thea Spyer, the two married in Canada at a time when gay marriage was not legal in the United States. When Spyer passed and Windsor was left as the executor and sole beneficiary to Spyer’s estate, the US government tried to tax Windsor for her earnings, not acknowledging a federal spousal deduction extended to opposite-sex couples. Windsor took this to the Supreme Court and won, which was a landmark start to same-sex rights that we all experience today. Then, the guys sit down to talk about our chosen family as queer people, and what it’s like to surround yourself with those that are not related to you by blood. Who is part of your chosen family and do the relationships intersect or run parallel with your biological family?Articles:Kristine Klussman: Connect by Cultivating Chosen Family Healthline: What ‘Chosen Family’ Means - and How to Build Your OwnShit to Put O

Text the Critellis HEREThe Critellis had a busy week and have no new episode for you all. Catch up on previous episodes of the podcast and get caught up on your Relationsh!t guests, topics, and laughs. The guys will harass your ears next week.Shit to Put On Your Radar:RELATIONSH!T X MARVIS PRIDE MONTH GIVEAWAY!!! During Pride Month, we are giving away a Marvis 7 Days of Flavor Gift Set to four selected winners. Head to our social media pages (@podrelationshit), answer the questions, and cross your fingers!BUY A RELATIONSH!T T-SHIRT!!! Sizes are limited so hurry now and get your very own Relationsh!t Podcast t-shirt HERE!Our friends over at the Minoritea Report Podcast are bringing new episodes every Monday so make sure you give them listen! Help support a queer BIPOC podcast and fall in love with the Aunteas and get yourself a sip of their tea.Support the showSh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That’s (903) 763-7448. You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on

Text the Critellis HERETrans socialite and chef, Lucy Hicks Anderson is this week’s #QueerHistory. In 1945, Lucy was arrested and tried for perjury after authorities discovered she was assigned male at birth but lived life as a married woman. The Ventura County district attorney argued that Lucy lied about her sex when applying for a marriage license, therefore perjuring herself and her husband at a time when trans visibility did not exist. Join us in celebrating a true queer icon and learn more about the aftermath of this interesting court case. Then, Marko and Tony sit down to talk about what it means to get old(er) within the gay community and how aging out feels to those over thirty. What is our obsession with youth and why do we fear getting old? This question and more during the conversation. And finally, the guys sit down to talk about the new movie “Fire Island” along with other queer documentaries and shows and whether or not they are impacting the queer movement the way we want them to.Articles:Psyc

Text the Critellis HERETo celebrate Pride Month, Marko and Tony are highlighting Leonard Matlovich, the very first military servicemember to publicly come out. In 1975, Matlovich came out to his superiors which led to his military discharge and immediate media spotlight, including a TIME Magazine cover proclaiming, “I Am a Homosexual”. Matlovich died at the age of 44 due to AIDS-related complications, but his contribution to the LGBTQ+ community is why he is this week’s #QueerHistory icon. Then, to kick off Pride Month, the guys sit down to talk about what “pride” means to them and how this year’s Pride celebration differs from others. Then, drag queen performer and wallet snatcher, Catrina Lovelace (@catrinalovelace) joins Marko and Tony at the Virtual Critable to report on her heaux tales, dating void, and her next big show and where you can see her perform!Shit to Put On Your Radar:BUY A RELATIONSH!T T-SHIRT!!! For Marko’s birthday, the only thing he wants is for you all to support the podcast by snagging

Text the Critellis HEREFabulous, fashionable fiances Victoria (@vickto_willy) and Lindsay (@benniebaby_) are this week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals. These ladies leave us wanting for nothing: there is romance, inspiration, sexiness, laughter: they’ve got it all! Check them out on Instagram and make sure you let them know the Critellis sent you! Then, Marko and Tony sit down to talk about the long-lost art of making out. Are there specific techniques that you should employ (or avoid)? Should you keep making out, long into your relationship? These questions and more are answered during this tongue-in-cheek conversation. Finally, the Critellis are once again joined by bestie and friend of the podcast, Steve Lowe (@steeeeevn). Hear about the Greece trip and Steve’s escapades ...Articles:Your Tango: What Kissing Really Means In A Long-Term Relationship (And Why You Shouldn't Ever Stop)DrPsychMom: When Kissing Stops In A Long Term RelationshipShit to Put On Your Radar:BUY A RELATIONSH!T T-SHIRT!!! For Marko’s bir

Text the Critellis HERELong-distance lovers, Alberto and Jordan (@albertoandjordan) are this week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals. The guys have managed to keep their relationship thriving between Mexico and France, and they are better for it. Their love for one another is so inspiring and we love to see it! Check them out on Instagram and make sure you let them know the Critellis sent you! Then, Marko and Tony sit down to talk about everybody’s favorite topic: blowjobs - or more specifically, giving and receiving oral sex after being in a long-term relationship. Should oral sex always be on the menu? And, what should you do if the oral sex dwindles in your relationship? Then, join the Critellis as they read about your relationship issues in the May edition of Listener Sh!utations.Articles:Ravishly: 4 Reasons Oral Sex Is Good For A Healthy RelationshipRefinery29: If You Want More Oral Sex, You’re Not Alone. Here’s How To Ask For ItShit to Put On Your Radar:Join our Virtual Meet & Greet on Wednesday, May 18th at

Text the Critellis HEREBrooklyn-based mama’s Nyesha and Samantha (@twomommiesandababy) are this week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals, and we could not be more excited to highlight them! These HBIC’s are not only winning in the relationship department, but they are killing it in the monetary department as well. Join them on their parenting and financial journey and make sure you let them know the Critellis sent you! Then, Marko and Tony sit down to talk about PORN! Is porn a part of your day-to-day life and if so … how does it affect your relationship? This is part of the Derek and Romaine live show takeover recorded last week, so tune in and let us know what you think! Thank you, Ajay and JB for your contribution to the conversation!Articles:Healthline: Watching Porn Isn’t the Same as Cheating - But it May Cross a BoundaryShit to Put On Your Radar:Join our Virtual Meet & Greet on Wednesday, May 18th at 8pm EST, by clicking here.Marko’s Birthday is at the end of the month! Send your birthday wishes to Marko by c

Text the Critellis HEREMiami’s finest is on display with this week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals. Kerry and Pierre (@kerryandpierre). Take a quick peek at this incredible, fit, happy, black-gay-magic couple, and see what all the fuss is about!. Give them a few double taps and let them know the Critellis sent you. Then, Marko and Tony sit down to talk about criticism within a relationship and whether it is helpful or hurtful to couples. Where is the line between constructive criticism and blunt rudeness? Then, the guys finish up the discussion by counting down the seven things you should NEVER criticize your partner on. We think a few are missing, but wonder what you think should have made the list. Touch base with us in the comments and let us know your thoughts on how productive criticism is to relationships.Articles:DrJessicaHiggins.com: 17 Ways To Shift Criticism To Maintain A Healthy Relationship Psychology Today: How Couples Can Use Criticism ConstructivelyBustle: 7 Things It’s Never OK For Your Partner To C

Text the Critellis HEREThis week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals is a first for us: we highlight a couple living in Israel! This Tel Aviv-based couple has everything we love about love and they are totally worth the follow! Go check out Itzik (@itzik_tlv) and his husband Eli (@eliraz27) on IG and let them know the Critellis sent you. Then, Marko and Tony enter the virtual church for a difficult conversation about what the tabernacle of trauma has meant to them (and to a lot of other queer people). We review some interesting statistics about how many queer people still hold the faith. You might be surprised by the facts! Finally, we talk with pastor Jordan Floro (@jordanfloro), neighbor, good guy, and modern church leader. Listen while he acknowledges the less-than-inclusive queer experience with church and what he thinks about the issue. Laugh, heal, and perhaps feel a little spirituality as we talk further about this difficult issue.Articles:USA Today: American Churches Must Reject Literalism and Admit We Got It W

Text the Critellis HERETucson husbands, Blake and Matthew (@blakeandmatthew) are this week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals, and for very good reason. Not only are these two incredibly adorable together, but we also enjoy following them through their adoption journey and know they will be wonderful parents.  Support them by checking out their website (HERE). Then, Marko and Tony get together ahead of their trip to Greece to talk about how they plan a vacation and who is more high-maintenance when it comes to packing.  Are you an over-packer? Finally, @thecritellis are the week’s guests as they talk about the top ten items they must bring with them while traveling. Make a guess what Marko and Tony’s #1 item is.Articles:Wander Wisdom: How to Plan a Vacation with Your Sweetheart, Boyfriend, Spouse, Partner, or UnicornShit to Put On Your Radar:Marko and Tony will take over the Derek & Romaine live show on Thursday, May 5th at 5pm EST.  Get a DNR Studios subscription so you can hear their live chat in real-time and b

Text the Critellis HEREWives Erika & Meghan (@twolesbiansinlove), are this week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals. We are obsessed with these grounded, honest, unashamed, beautiful beings. They are so lovely together and we could not be happier to share them with you. Check them out on IG and let them know the Critellis sent you. Then, Marko and Tony get together to talk about flirtation. Listen in to find out whether we think we know how to flirt. You’ll laugh, you’ll cry, you’ll groan at the cheesy pick-up lines. It is equal parts scientific research and tomfoolery. Finally, tune in for the April edition of the Listener Shituations, where @thecritellis sit down to solve your relationship issues, Critelli-style.Articles:Pride.com: 10 Flirting Tips for Socially Awkward Gay/Bi GuysBustle: How To Successfully Flirt, According To ScienceShit to Put On Your Radar:Join our Virtual Meet & Greet on Wednesday, April 13th at 8pm EST, by clicking here.Marko and Tony will takeover the Derek & Romaine live show on Th

Text the Critellis HEREThis week, we are celebrating Brian Mazelin and Alec Tomlin (@meetthemazelins), and recognizing them as our #QueerReltaionshipGoals for the week, because … DUH.  Look at them! This example of black love is the truest form of companionship and we just love to see it.  Check them out on IG and make sure you let them know the Critellis sent you! Then, Marko and Tony sit down to talk about playing music during sex - and more specifically; creating a sex mixtape. Have you ever created a sex mixtape, and if so … what songs are on the playlist? And finally, the guys are joined at the Virtual Critable by friend of the podcast, Benjy Bradshaw (@benjybradshaw) to talk about his new song “Like It”, featuring TooMfknGucci (@toomfkngucci). Benjy and Gucci talk about creating the song together, what the inspiration was for the song, and when we can expect the next collaboration (wink wink).  Check out this week’s episode and tell us how much you LIKE Benjy and Gucci’s new song and video.Articles:Huff

Text the Critellis HEREThis week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals are an amazing married couple, Ash and Jess (@lez_be_in_love_). These ladies are all smiles and sunshine. We fell in love with them instantly and we are sure you will too. Check them out on IG and let them know the Critellis sent you. Then, Marko and Tony talk about a touchy topic (pun intended): differing levels of libido in a long-term relationship. How do you manage when one of you wants to throw down constantly while the other is fine with less frequent fornication? Finally, the guys chat with Dr. Evan Goldstein (@drevangoldstein): surgeon, founder, and CEO of Bespoke Surgical, co-founder of The Future Method sex care products, one of Crain’s 2020 New York City’s top LGBTQ+ business leaders, and all-around hilarious and informative human being. You are sure you will enjoy this educational but accessible discussion with a queer health thought leader. The conversation is frank, humorous, and so important.Articles:Sexual Being: How to Handle When You

Text the Critellis HEREFiancées, Kurt Moore (@the_kurt_moore) and Emmitt Jackson (@emmitt.jackson), are this week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals, and we absolutely love this couple. Not only are they easy on the eyes, but they are incredibly adorable together - there is nothing like two attractive, muscular men in love. We are inspired by their romance and think you will be too. Check them out on IG and let them know the Critellis sent you. Then, Marko and Tony get together to talk about the effect your exes may have on your current relationship. Is it possible to be friends with an ex? How do you get over your ex to make room for your new partner? Listen in as the guys try to navigate this challenging issue. Finally, tune in for the March edition of the Listener Shituations, where the guys sit down to solve your relationship issues, Critelli-style.Articles:Marriage.com: The Danger Behind Talking to an Ex While in a RelationshipPsychology Today: 10 Reasons Why Some People Cannot Let Go of an ExShit to Put On Your

Text the Critellis HEREWe love this week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals, Shyheim and Sean (@theseanandshyshow), and know you will too.  This gorgeous, east coast-based, #BlackLove couple, could not be more adorable together. From sharing hairstyles to sharing adventures, these guys are everything we love about love. Follow them on IG and find out why we are obsessed. Then, Marko and Tony sit down to talk about supporting one another, and what that looks like in their own relationship.  What does support mean to you and are you supporting your partner the way they need you to? Finally, the guys are joined at the Virtual Critable by longtime friends, and fiancees, Mike (@saintdotclair) and Dave. The gents tell their relationship origin story, ways they’ve influenced one another, and what the proposal was like for both of them. They keep Marko and Tony laughing and we’re sure they’ll do the same for you!Articles:My Love Thinks: 5 Easy Ways to Support Your PartnerMarriage.com: 20 Steps to Becoming a Supportive Partner

Text the Critellis HEREThis week, we are highlighting Stanley and Jackson Alvey (@stanleyandjackson) as our #QueerRelationshipGoals. These guys are just too adorable to pass up! We didn’t bring our tape measure but we are pretty sure there is less than two inches between them in every picture: they are just so darn affectionate! Give them a follow on IG - you’ll be glad you did! Then, Marko and Tony sit down to talk about boredom. Do you feel less than thrilled in your relationship? Are you finding yourself immersed in the mundane? Join us as we explore a challenging aspect of relationships: how to identify when you are bored and what you can do about it! Then, the guys are joined at the Virtual Critable by Mike Iamele (@mikeiamele) to talk about his journey of discovery that resulted in the development of his technique, Mapping Sensitivities. Schedule your own mapping session with Mike, here. If you are a DNR Studios subscriber, you’ll also get exclusive access to a brief mapping session with Marko!Articles:

Text the Critellis HEREThis week, Atlanta-based partners (@caras_atl) are our #QueerRelationshipGoals.  After coming to her queer identity later in life after marriage and a child, Cara met Cara, and the rest is history.  With so much love and joy within their family, this couple shows us that true love has different plans for us.  Give them a follow on IG - you’ll be glad you did! Then, Marko and Tony sit down to talk about slowing down.  Too often, one or both parts of a couple move too fast, completely missing the gooey center of a relationship and causing impatience and chaos.  How can you slow down and take your time in a relationship, not whizzing past all the good stuff? Then, the guys are joined at the Virtual Critable by friend of the podcast and good sport, Steven Lowe (@steeeeevn) to talk about a recent night out with Marko, finding love on the subway, and the upcoming trip to Greece.  Get ready for some laughs!Articles:Mom Junction:How to Take a Relationship Slow: 15 Useful TipsElite Daily:Here’s

Text the Critellis HEREWe LOVE love, but we love this week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals even more.  Karl and Erry (@sokarlnerry) are giving us every ounce of life we never knew we needed.  Their undeniable love for one another and adorable connection is black love at its best.  We just know you will enjoy them just as much as we do, so make sure you give them a follow.  Then, Marko and Tony sit down to have the same fight, on a different day.  What is with this relationship phenomenon, and how do we stop the endless cycle of arguing about the same topic repeatedly? The guys try to figure it out on this week’s episode.  Finally, Marko and Tony are joined at the Virtual Critable by certified sex and relationship therapist, Dr. Joe Kort as he walks the guys through his methods for treating couples, what it means to be a “side”, and how he and his husband met. News Articles Gathered From:The Guardian: Break the Cycle: How to Stop Having the Same Argument Again and Again and AgainPsychology Today:  5 Reason Why You K

This week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals are the incomparable Daniel (@danifyi) and Gregory (@kiiing_gregory). These gorgeous, successful, happy gents are the perfect pick for Valentine’s Day! We can honestly say that theirs is the embodiment of what we had in mind when we created this segment: an exceptional example that can inspire us all. Then, Marko and Tony discuss the all-too-common problem of getting into a tit-for-tat situation; the vicious cycle that is so easy to fall into. The guys are very honest in providing an example of how this issue pervades their own relationship. And finally, join the guys at the Virtual Critable as they read through the September edition of your Listener Shituations and give ya’ll some guidance … Critelli-style.News Articles Gathered From:PsychCentral: Why Your Relationship May Be Stuck in a Frustrating Tit-for-Tat PatternMadison Mental Health Counselor: Tit for Tat: When We Want to RetaliateShit to Put On Your Radar:The summer edition of DNR Studios’ 2022 crate is here. Buy yo