The Susan Winter Show

       Stuck in a 'friend with benefits situationship'? Trying to hold your ground while your ‘friend’ examines other romantic options ? Here’s how to handle this loop of anxiety: #FWB #friendswithbenefits #situationship Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

https://idobi.com/.../21st-century-dating-raye-susan-winter/ World renowned DJ and music producer Ryan Skyy and I discuss the evolution of modern dating, how to best navigate 21st century romance, and cutting-edge partnership models: #idobiradio #RyanSkyy #RAYE Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Do you know the top 5 signs that prove your online admirer is a scammer? These are the first 5 moves in the scammers playbook that reveal their hand (and save your heart). #onlinedating #scammers #romancescam  Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

‘Trying’ isn’t accomplishing when the excuse is repetitive. It’s procrastination. Don’t fall for this dating game. Here’s how to handle a lazy, unmotivated partner: #datinggames #nonpriority #lazypartner  Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Wondering how to impress an older woman from your first date onward? It’s easier than you think. You can relax and be yourself when you separate myth, from fact. Here are the facts: #olderwomen #youngermen #firstdates Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

You thought the two of you were on the same page.  Affection, dates, time together, and time with each other’s friends. THEN, this happens. They say they’re ‘not ready.’ What should you do? #Situationship #NotReady Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Are you caught in a loop of waiting and hoping for your ex to come back? Wondering why it’s so hard to let go and why you can’t stop thinking of them? Here’s the cure: #ex #breakups #getbackwithex #obsession Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Are you waiting and hoping that one day your ex will realize your worth? Here’s why you’re  stuck in a loop, obsessed and yearning for a ‘good review’ (to make them return): #breakups #worth #ex #goodreview Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

The ‘justified narcissist’ is my term for a person who claims their bad behavior isn’t their fault. Their ‘condition’ (aka the ‘fake hall pass’), is to blame. Therefore, you’re insensitive for complaining and need to accept this reality.# justifiednarcissist #hallpass #selfindulgent #fakecondition #gaslighting #datinggames Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Are you struggling to manage fear in your open relationship? Wondering how to be fully present but can’t help feeling insecure? Here’s the answer to this internal conflict: #openrelationships #fear #insecurity #nonmonogomy Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Are you struggling to enjoy a committed relationship but find yourself worrying about the future? When life goals and values don’t match, hard decisions must be made. Rather than tread water, try this: #committed #couplegoals Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

‘Hardballing’ means sharing your dating goals on the first date. Done properly, it brings the right partner in. Done improperly, it pushes a qualified partner away. Here’s the right and wrong way to hardball: #hardballing #partnerselection #couplegoals Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Your ex wants you back— in the future. They need to ‘grow’ and ‘heal. Do you trust them? Should you wait? Here’s your answer: #ex #breakups #backwithex  Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Your human rights supersede any condition of your relationship, including dating title (or lack thereof). You deserve to be treated with respect. Here’s how to set that expectation: #humanrights #datingrights #selfworth #respect Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Stunned by the fact that someone close ghosted you? Stuck in a loop of wondering ‘why?’ This isn’t some random person. You can talk to each other. Still confused? Here’s the answer: #ghosted #datingadvice #breakups Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Too cautious. Too guarded. Too late? Did you lose their love for good? Maybe not. Here’s how to tell if you still have a chance: #toolate #lovelost #selfprotection  Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Has your partner shut down, gone radio silent silent, or ghosted you? What’s the right move? Here’s when to reach out and when to cut your losses: #closure #pulling away Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

It’s scary enough running into your ex unexpectedly. But what about running into them with their new lover? Rather than fear this possibility, prepare for it with forethought and confidence. Here’s how: #breakups #ex  Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Wondering why your partner won’t give you a “label?” There are two distinct reasons for not clarifying your status. Want to know which applies to you? Watch this: #nolabel #situationship #datingadvice #validation #title Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Finally! You got your ex back. You should be thrilled, right? But you’re in the same pattern of arguments and triggered responses. Here’s how to exit the loop of reactivity:  #exback #triggers  Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile