The Susan Winter Show

You have innate human rights as a dater. Know what constitutes proper treatment, and what is unacceptable. Here’s how to communicate your needs so that they will be honored. #DatingRightsYour Right to be RespectedRespecting OthersBoundaries and ResentmentsHow to Communicate Your NeedsWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Are You Subconsciously Dating for Approval? Men date women for the approval of other men. Women date men for the approval of other women. Here’s how the desire for social approval impacts mate selection and our future happiness. #ApprovalPrisonSocial InfluenceGroup Acceptance and StatusIndependent ThinkingAuthentic Choice of MateWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

You can feel it—they’re pulling away but insist everything’s fine. Who’s right: your gut or their words? Here’s how to uncover the truth:Is It Your Fear or Their Actions/Inactions?How to Speak UpLanguage and ToneHonest CommunicationAnswersWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Are you stuck in 'The Approval Prison,' constantly chasing likes, status, or validation? Learn how external evaluation systems keep you trapped and discover the key to securing real self-worth on your terms.Externalized Version of WorthSecuring Inner WorthSocial Media ConformityAccepting Your ChoicesWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

The partner you say you want isn’t the one you’re actually choosing. Why? It’s the Dating Paradox. Learn how to stop picking the wrong person and get out of your own way. Here’s how to find lasting love.The Dating ParadoxWhy We Choose Blindly (with our eyes)Edifying Our EgoSocial Status and Peer ApprovalWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Rejection hurts. And it’s hard not to personalize it. But what if the real reason someone walked away has nothing to do with you as a person? Here’s how to decode the real reason for their rejection and gain insight to the bigger picture at hand.Work with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

We often hear in dating advice, “Don’t give your power away.” How does that look in the real world? Here’s how to never feel like you’ve lost your power, no matter the circumstance. Power Dynamics In A Relationship Keeping Control, Independent Of Circumstances How To Do It ExamplesWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Feeling judged? Here’s Why—Being judged hurts, but it says more about them than you. Here’s the reason and how to confidently flip the tables to your favor.Judgement Speaks Volumes About the Judger Fear of Difference and the UnknownOnly Two Positions- Open/ClosedThe Closed Position Evolving Toward OpenWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Obsession enables us to ignore red flags. We’ve locked onto the moment we felt desired and adored. Now, that moments gone. But we’re still trapped in a loop of yearning...until we understand the Relevancy Principle. The Mental Snapshot That Hooked YouWhy We Ignore Red Flags  Assessing Present Behavior- Relevancy Principle Work with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Is your obsession real love or just loneliness playing tricks on you? Here’s how to pull back the curtain on lingering feelings of melancholy and determine the truth of your feelings. Here’s how to view our ex in totality and see the complete picture in full dimension.  1.How To Know If It’s Love Or Loneliness 2.How And Why You Got Stuck 3.Deconstructing Your ‘Perfect Partner’ 4.Clarity = Freedom From Melancholy Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Thinking of getting back with your ex? Learn to spot the line between positive hope and harmful delusion. Here’s how to get what you truly want… 1.Consider the past- positive or negative 2.Are there lingering unresolved issues? 3.Do they care to try again? Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Thinking of getting back with your ex? Learn to spot the line between positive hope and harmful delusion. Here’s how to get what you truly want… 1.Consider the past- positive or negative 2.Are there lingering unresolved issues? 3.Do they care to try again? Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

We often hear it said that you have to love yourself before you can love someone else. But is that true? And, what about your partner? Can they love you if they don’t love themselves? Here’s the surprising answer: 1.How do you know if you love yourself? 2.How do you know if your partner loves themselves? 3.How important are these two factors in a relationship? 4.What’s the line between narcissism and self-love? Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Blindsided Breakup? Do This… What’s the quickest way to bounce back from a blindsided breakup? How do you heal from your partner’s betrayal and sudden exit? Here’s how to fast-track your recovery from the breakup you never saw coming: The shock of a sudden breakup can feel excruciating. The betrayal of trust and confusion is overwhelming, as is the question of how to survive this shocking ending. Blindsided breakups are one of the hardest to process. But there is a quicker way to heal. Here’s the fast-track to recovery: 1.Processing the Extreme Duality 2.Reviewing the Breakdown for Clues 3.Reframing the ‘Perfect Partner’ Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube Cha

How do you tell your new dating app match that you want to keep your options open and see others before committing? Here’s how to handle this early relationship conversation with diplomacy and ease. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Wondering if your player has any real feelings for you? Here’s what you need to know about your hot and cold player, and how they play the game. The reality of dating a player can be excruciating. Their attention is intoxicating. It seemed like they truly cared… Until they didn’t. You can often get hung up and wondering if they ever cared at all. Here is the better line of thinking to assist you in your recovery and future partnerships. 1.You Can’t Change a Player 2.Assessing What Really Happened 3.Charting a Course Forward Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn Profil

Have you fallen for the “Spiritual Player?” You may think you want a spiritual partner— but what you’re really requesting is ethical behavior and higher standards. Here’s the test: 1. You assume the realm is “safe” – not so. 2. Know your ‘why.’ What’s the real reason behind your request? 3. Beware of spiritual gaslighting. You’ll be blamed as being “less spiritual” for having a reaction to their bad behavior. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Struggling to find love? Frustrated, exhausted and in need of hope? Learn the structure and tools that enable you to get the love you want from the first date onward. These are the foundational principles: 1.Hope: 2.Filtering: 3.Communication: 4.Process: Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Is it your first love (and first breakup)? Or is it the first time you let yourself fall in love? Recovering from this type of heartache requires these tools: 1.Accepting it’s over 2.Separating ‘the dream’ from reality 3.Trust LIFE to bring you love again. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

What is the ‘3-6-9 Rule’ for relationships and why is it crucial for finding a lasting love? Here's how evaluating your relationship at each segment of time will reveal key insights that guide you in determining if this is your ‘person.' 3. The Discovery Phase:The first three months are a period of discovery and assessment. Here is where you assess your level of attraction and compatibility. 6. The Bonding Phase:his phase is marked by the deepening of your emotions for each other and the strengthening of your relationship. 9. The Evaluation Phase: This is the phase where you begin to determine the long-term potential of this person. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: Y