The Susan Winter Show

How do you go from a breakup to a new life with a bright future? By marking your transitions. We can’t have a new beginning if we don’t mark our ending. Here’s how to do it with joy. More from my interview in Moneyish (Dow Jones Media Group). https://moneyish.com/splurge/the-insane-amounts-of-money-people-are-spending-to-get-over-bad-breakups/ Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Everyone wants a good review—especially for your role as a dedicated partner. Why has your ex gone Jekyll and Hyde? Becoming cold, vicious, or telling lies to discredit you? Here’s how to handle a spurned ex while retaining your dignity. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Dial past confusion and secure the relationship's reins. The clarity you seek starts with you. The partner with the clearest goals controls the relationship. When you’ve given that info to your mate, how do they handle this? That gives you your next move on the game board. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

You want meaningful connection and a love that’s real. But what if you’ve never experienced how that looks or feels? Here’s how to sync up your vision with reality and create the prototype for your unique love experience. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

There’s a lot of confusion surrounding ‘being nice’ and dating.  Men often worry that being their best self is a turnoff, and an open invitation for disrespect. Here’s how to secure your power, confidence and desirability while being a person YOU respect. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

For those of you who want a second exploration of a former love, these are the factors that MUST be in place for romantic success to occur. Only then, will you have the composure and distance to create a new dynamic for partnership. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Are you seeking love from someone incapable of giving it to you? Childhood issues can create the need to want to heal our past through our current mate. Here's how to use the power of that inner directive to your best interest. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

We’ve been culturally programmed to automatically default to the position of a victim.  This serves no one– certainly not those of you seeking love. Here’s the way out of that mental rut, and the tools to redefine your experience for the better. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Time constraints intensify the dating and mating process. How can you effectively date when you’re busy? And, how do you date a busy person? Here are the key components that must be in place for romance to occur, and continue. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Anyone who’s been dumped feels wounded, betrayed and undesirable. The first logical move is to regain our power and even the scales. Learn when rebound sex works, and when it will fail you. My interview in Babe: Is the best way to get over someone actually getting under someone else?https://babe.net/2017/09/05/babe-investigates-is-the-best-way-to-get-over-someone-to-get-under-someone-else-13076 Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

You’ve just noticed your partner noticing somebody else.  Is this cause for alarm? What should you do? Here’s how to counter your partners wondering eye with acumen and confidence. For more on this topic: My interview with International Business Times TV/Medical Daily: The Wandering Eye: Why We Check Other People Out In Front Of Our Partner http://video.ibt.com/wandering-eye-why-we-check-other-people-out-front-our-partner-37315 Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

It’s far too easy to get into a fight via text message.  The truncated nature of texting creates too much room for error in your partner’s interpretation (as well as yours).  The best way out of a jam is to call your partner. Hearing each other’s voices reconnects you— as you work your way back to understanding each other properly and honest communication. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Partnership requires great communication. Also, picking one’s battles wisely. Here are new techniques for boundary setting and behavior modification that don’t involve directly addressing the issue. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

How can you tell your partner what you need without sounding demanding? What if you’re physically attracted to someone with a horrible personality? In these two viewer questions I explain how to effectively communicate your needs by using incentive rather than by demanding, and how attraction occurs (even when it’s irrational). Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

We’re always more lax in the beginning stages of a new relationship. We want to engage our partner, rather than appear difficult.  We don’t want to be demanding, but we do need to let our mate know if they’ve overstepped their boundaries. Here’s how to do that tactfully. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Can you trust yourself?  This is where the seat of your power lies. People are human, and humans make mistakes. When you trust yourself, you trust your ability to make smart decisions and to be resilient in times of relationship challenges. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

How do you handle having a crush on your friend’s partner? And what if two friends are fighting over you (or you’re in competition with your friend over the same person)? These are the viewer questions answered in this video along with detailed analysis on why these things are occurring for you, and to you. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

When we like someone, we often become self-conscious and question our choice of response. We wonder how to answer a text message, or edit ourselves in a new dating scenario. This leads to confusion and the erosion of our confidence. Here’s what you can do to regain mastery of any unexpected situation. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

This style of ‘fake fight’ is a variation on a long-standing classic. But this dating game isn’t crafted to create a breakup. It’s designed to keep you in place, through control. The orchestrator of this technique seeks to hook you into a loop of insecurity so that you’ll never leave. Here’s how to turn the tables.  Here’s how to discern real love, from the fearful state of insecurity that masks as love. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

When confused, we hesitate to do the obvious; just ASK. We fear confrontation.  But mostly, we fear the answer we may receive. Here’s how to get back to natural communication without feeling intrusive or insecure. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile