The Susan Winter Show

Are you unconsciously driving your partner away? What appears as helpful information can also be why they’re losing interest, attraction, and desire. Here’s how to get back on course and reignite your relationship.Your Attempt to Fix ThemPulling Away and Losing InterestCommunicating DifferentlyWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

The avoidant craves you when you're distant but loses interest when you're available. Hot/cold. Push/pull. It will remain the same… until you do this: #DismissiveAvoidant #HotandColdThe avoidant’s attraction is fueled by longing, not love. It’s easy to hope your absence has sparked their desire. But once you’re back in their arms, their fear of engulfment triggers them to pull away. This cycle keeps them uncommitted, always seeking greener grass while leaving you questioning if the connection was ever real. The Avoidant’s Push-Pull Dynamics Their Fear of Intimacy Ending Your Emotional RollercoasterWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Don’t Fall for This!Learn how the ‘frailty factor’ blindsides you every time. Here's how cons and scammers break your heart (and bank account)— and how realizing this dynamic shuts it down. #healthydating #scammers #onlinescams #romancescams #datinggamesHuman beings are built to love and be loved. It’s our natural desire. But in the hopes of being loved, we’re also vulnerable to those who’d prey upon us. Awareness of our internal weakness will assist us in filtering out the scammers from truly interested partners. What Is The ‘Frailty Factor’ Identifying its Hallmarks Self-Correction, Boundaries, ReassessmentWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Are you together, broken up, or something in between? Relationship limbo put you in a state of ongoing anxiety and confusion. Here are the steps to gain clarity and remove the mixed messages and ambiguity. Mixed Messages Delaying DTR Uncertainty About Your Future Communication TipsWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Do you know how to love yourself unconditionally? Does it seem like an impossible task? Here’s what it takes to get into agreement with yourself, your choices, and your journey.Stop ComparingMacro not Micro YOUThe ‘Dirty Mirror’ RealizationWhere Self-Love Went WrongWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Expressing sexual preferences can be challenging. In this interview, America's leading midlife dating and relationship coach, Jonathan Aslay, provides clear guidelines and practical speaking points to help you communicate your desires with confidence and ease.Stating Your PreferencesDating Contracts, Exclusivity, and Romantic GoalsFeedback and Honest DialogueYoutube:JonathonAslaywww.jonathonaslay.comWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Tired of dead-end relationships? Are you filtering for love? Or just wasting time. Here’s how to know if someone wants what you want and wants it with YOU. Filter From the Start Clarify Your Goals Discern, Assess, and Be DecisiveWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Unlock the secrets of magnetic attraction. Discover the 3 proven strategies to becoming irresistibly desirable and alluring. If you’re looking lasting success in relationships, these factors make you stand out and captivate effortlessly. True interest in others. Ask questions about them. Warm personality – opposite of cold/aloof (which equals fear/protection) Conversational skills – knowledge of various topicsWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Obsessed with your ex and stuck in a breakup loop? Learn how negative scripts hijack your mind and keep you from moving on—here’s how to break free and reclaim your peace. #BreakupAdvice #MoveOn If he/she doesn’t want me = no one will.They are irreplaceableThey’ll give all their love to someone elseUnnecessary suffering, through negative overthinking and projectionWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

You have innate human rights as a dater. Know what constitutes proper treatment, and what is unacceptable. Here’s how to communicate your needs so that they will be honored. #DatingRightsYour Right to be RespectedRespecting OthersBoundaries and ResentmentsHow to Communicate Your NeedsWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Are You Subconsciously Dating for Approval? Men date women for the approval of other men. Women date men for the approval of other women. Here’s how the desire for social approval impacts mate selection and our future happiness. #ApprovalPrisonSocial InfluenceGroup Acceptance and StatusIndependent ThinkingAuthentic Choice of MateWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

You can feel it—they’re pulling away but insist everything’s fine. Who’s right: your gut or their words? Here’s how to uncover the truth:Is It Your Fear or Their Actions/Inactions?How to Speak UpLanguage and ToneHonest CommunicationAnswersWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Are you stuck in 'The Approval Prison,' constantly chasing likes, status, or validation? Learn how external evaluation systems keep you trapped and discover the key to securing real self-worth on your terms.Externalized Version of WorthSecuring Inner WorthSocial Media ConformityAccepting Your ChoicesWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

The partner you say you want isn’t the one you’re actually choosing. Why? It’s the Dating Paradox. Learn how to stop picking the wrong person and get out of your own way. Here’s how to find lasting love.The Dating ParadoxWhy We Choose Blindly (with our eyes)Edifying Our EgoSocial Status and Peer ApprovalWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Rejection hurts. And it’s hard not to personalize it. But what if the real reason someone walked away has nothing to do with you as a person? Here’s how to decode the real reason for their rejection and gain insight to the bigger picture at hand.Work with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

We often hear in dating advice, “Don’t give your power away.” How does that look in the real world? Here’s how to never feel like you’ve lost your power, no matter the circumstance. Power Dynamics In A Relationship Keeping Control, Independent Of Circumstances How To Do It ExamplesWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Feeling judged? Here’s Why—Being judged hurts, but it says more about them than you. Here’s the reason and how to confidently flip the tables to your favor.Judgement Speaks Volumes About the Judger Fear of Difference and the UnknownOnly Two Positions- Open/ClosedThe Closed Position Evolving Toward OpenWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Obsession enables us to ignore red flags. We’ve locked onto the moment we felt desired and adored. Now, that moments gone. But we’re still trapped in a loop of yearning...until we understand the Relevancy Principle. The Mental Snapshot That Hooked YouWhy We Ignore Red Flags  Assessing Present Behavior- Relevancy Principle Work with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Is your obsession real love or just loneliness playing tricks on you? Here’s how to pull back the curtain on lingering feelings of melancholy and determine the truth of your feelings. Here’s how to view our ex in totality and see the complete picture in full dimension.  1.How To Know If It’s Love Or Loneliness 2.How And Why You Got Stuck 3.Deconstructing Your ‘Perfect Partner’ 4.Clarity = Freedom From Melancholy Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Thinking of getting back with your ex? Learn to spot the line between positive hope and harmful delusion. Here’s how to get what you truly want… 1.Consider the past- positive or negative 2.Are there lingering unresolved issues? 3.Do they care to try again? Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile