The Thought Leader Revolution Podcast | 10x Your Impact, Your Income & Your Influence

“Really good coaching is allowing people to feel the space that they’re in, because we all make decisions from an emotional space, whether we like it or not.” Pushing harder isn’t always the answer—especially in sales. When coaches ignore emotional resistance or try to “save” their prospects, they sabotage their results. Sales is about meeting people at their pain points and guiding them through their own decision-making process. The real skill lies in holding space, asking the right questions, and letting people come to clarity on their own terms. Kirstin Carey explains how overachievement often masks a deeper emotional void, and how burnout is the inevitable result of chasing validation through performance. Her approach is to help clients feel safe enough to explore their pain without rushing to escape it. Using a model she calls the “Dr. Strange Close,” she leads them to visualize the version of themselves that already has what they want—and then confront what must be released to reach it. This hinges on p