Cupid's Coach With Julie Ferman

Join me and Toronto matchmaker Carmelia Ray as we discuss the dangers of triggers over money, sex, and communication styles. How fear, anger and assumptions can derail your early dates. How to graciously handle difficult situations and develop a healthy first date mindset. The art and the discipline of staying in the present and the value in slowing down the pace of dating. How our social culture is strengthened by authenticity and compassionate communication, and the power of a sincere apology. 

Join me as dating coach and matchmaker, Dan Silverman, reveals how the Good Guy can get the girl!  Developing "Game" -- the casual, just-edgy-enough exterior that serves to attract women. Nurturing your inner game, mindset, playful behavior, and humor to draw a woman in. Managing rejection and learning how to be playful. What is cold approach pick-up, and why it's good to practice it. Plus, how women can avoid the narcissist and design a true modern day partnership! What is female game and how she can build it to inspire a man to step into relationship.  Attraction vs authenticity, and polyamory -- what is it, when to reveal, when to ask, how to communicate it?  

We're in the midst of a demographic revolution. Nearly half of our population is over fifty. Listen in as I interview Senena Capanelli, co-founder of Age Nation, on how to grow and thrive separate from time. How to reframe and rename your story, maintaining and developing confidence through self-talk and how we speak with others. How the richness and depth of maturity is overpowering the myth of youth, enabling new, undiscovered capacity for love in dating and relationship today. 

In this episode I call out the Sugar Daddy trap; why it's a tease and a dead end for her - and for him. Why being too picky will leave you child-less, and why your stated age preferences are turning off your real prospects!

How disasters and disappointments can spur breakthroughs through inner work, studying and experiential learning. How heartbreak can throw us into accelerated growth and access to higher consciousness, propelling us to hew levels of compassion. How to move from suffering to healing, transforming that energy into a greater capacity for love, creativity and contribution. 

Listen in as I interview Mike Goldstein, EZ Dating Coach, who has the answers to how to tweak your online dating methodology so that it becomes fun and fruitful for you. Sexy Boundaries; what are they and how do we set them in a way that brings a man closer? How much does a young guy truly want his date to reveal on that first date and how to co-created the pace of relationship and intimacy? Discover how every connection and every date is a bridge to build, not burn. Plus - the real reason your online dating photos are not working for you! 

Join me as I share with you how to find really good men right in your community. Why the vast majority of matchmakers have abandoned women - and what we can do about this tragedy. Why most dating agencies and matchmaking companies are too limited to serve you well. And you'll discover how to develop your own social network through hosting your own Plus One parties. It's your love life -- you get to design it! 

Listen in as speaker and consultant Matthew Mitchell and I address this sticky issue. The challenges and the blessings that are presented to us as we re-examine sexuality, intimacy and communication in this modern era. It's a bold, honest conversation about how very real vulnerability is for women. Also we call out the responsibility women have for the message our attire and physical presentation conveys to men. How to nip harassment or unwanted advances in the bud, on the spot, whether on a date or in the office.

Listen in as I interview Tripp Kramer, renowned dating coach for men (TrippAdvice.com) on the guy's perspective in dating. How smart women are finding feminine ways to invite him to initiate. First date conversation flow, how to develop the courage to be persistent. and how to exit with honesty and integrity!

30 years after Manuel Manga coached me on how to find my partner, the tables have turned and now I have my former dating coach in the hot seat, addressing what romantic love is today. The dangers in The List, why wealth and beauty aren't the answer, what women can do to become easier to find, to date, and to love!

Join me as I interview relationship expert Wendy Newman, author of 121 First Dates, revealing the truth about pickiness and how to evolve beyond it. Why dating the short guy might change everything for you. What to do if you're stuck in "One Date Wonderland" - and Happiness Habits that will transform loneliness into healthy self-love!

When romantic chemistry doesn't happen, why is that? "The Relationship Coach" Devon Loomis joins be to discuss how to develop the ability to connect with others, through falling in love with ourselves first. The real purpose of dating. The gifts in breakdown, conflict and triggers. When to go inward and when to engage? The dangers in pornography, as the ultimate disconnect and the exact opposite of intimacy, love, and healthy relationship.

How did Debbie find her guy? Why does a prince look like in today's modern world? Why your expectations could be your biggest barrier to finding relationship. Should you lose weight first, or date while you're on a fitness kick? And what to do with that phone of yours while you're on a date. This episode is all about courage, developing the courage to step outside your existing comfort zone, and the rewards that this extra courage will bring you!  

We take aim at dating in Santa Fe, New Mexico! The best venues for dining solo, how to make magic of Trader Joe's, The Coop, Whole Foods, and how Ecstatic Dance is for anyone and everyone. Hiking, cooking classes, art gallery socials, connection opportunities over music festivals, festivals and food trucks. Why we should never burn a bridge, chatting, flirting, initiating, getting good at capturing that phone number, and what about sober dating? How women can and should let him know she's open to his initiation, and how to let someone down easy, making a friend in the process. How ghosting is self-sabotage and how truthful, compassionate communication is your friend, and how to build your OWN social network of fantastic single people!

Join me as I tap into the wisdom of renowned dating coach for strong, successful women, Evan Marc Katz. What is compatibility, really? How to adjust our dating behavior and expectations in this world of rapidly evolving gender roles. Discover what men truly need from women, and how to be that woman who gets the best out of the men in your life. Why so many married couples are unhappy and how to manage your love life so that won't be you in the future. 

Listen in as Mark Owen, Founder of Events and Adventures shares the value of social and athletic events as a vehicle for developing interpersonal skills and as a chance  to explore common passions with like minded people. Why sleeping around and drinking too much will kill your options, how to dress up a coffee date, what "marrying up" really is, and how a guy who isn't looking for marriage ends up there...happily!

What is your love lineage? The Love Designer Renee Piane joines me to show how what we learned about love from our family of origin often blocks us from the relationship we're hoping to find; healing our own hearts through understanding and releasing historical pain. We explore the power of intuition and how sparks can ignite after decades of dormancy. 

Listen in as I share real life stories of dating mishaps and success from the archives of a real life matchmaker. People who got it right, who did dating well, and ... those who are messing things up royally. What can we learn from these wins and the tragic losses? How expectations and assumptions are your enemy, how texting or the absence of a text can ruin everything. How a dog can be your best flirting prop, when to let the guy pay, the valet parking dilemma, and the real truth about money in dating!

Join me as I explore the ways we unknowingly sabotage our romantic relationships with psychologist and best-selling author, Dr. Debra Mandel. Dr. Mandel (author of "Dump That Chump" and "Healing The Sensitive Heart") reveals the power in confidence, tenderness and vulnerability. You'll discover how the stories you share might be hurting you, and how anger chases love away.  You'll learn how to know if you're rebounding or truly ready to love again, and how to determine what YOUR part is, in relationships that didn't endure. 

Wanna know how to feel great, and handle the weight issue once and for all? Nutrition and Health Coach Liz O'Keefe is the woman who knows, because she has done it and can show you how! Join us as we share a weight loss/nutrition solution that's easy to integrate and just plain works. Losing 15 lbs can transform your responses from "meh" to "wow!" and is the magic ticket to health, love, and the life you are looking to get!