Cupid's Coach With Julie Ferman

  Online Dating Guru Julie Spira jumps into the hot seat to talk getting off the hamster wheel, the paradox of online snooping, the reality of rebounds, and finding a true connection! We reveal how to manage age issues, height issues, food issues, finances, transients, and non-committals - plus photo tips, safety tips, creating a welcoming space, and much, much, more! Everything you need to succeed online - and get offline fast!  

TV Personality and Dating Specialist Damona Hoffman joins me to explore taking control of your dating destiny through initiation, finding the FUN in dating, and being your own matchmaker. Listen in as we reveal the tricks to getting offline quickly to have real world connections, how much to reveal initially, and what to hold back. Everything you need to find the dates you want and the love you seek!

Soulmate Coaches Orna and Matthew Walters join me to talk creating love on purpose, and managing communication in a modern dating culture. Ghosting. The Money Trap. The Car Door. And the power of a foot rub! Dive in as we explore the blessing of a bump in the road, appreciation and acknowledgement as fuel for our men, how to tell if he really wants a relationship - and what his showing off for you REALLY means!

Renowned Vedic Astrologist Carol Allen shows us the power of curiosity, how to recognize our energetic compliment and the importance of bringing happiness to our love lives. Why are we rarely attracted to the person who’s perfect on paper? What is a soul - and are we meant to find a soulmate? Sexual chemistry vs. compatibility, broken pickers, the danger in quick conclusions, contempt, and overthinking. Boners, bad kissers, hormones,a woman’s role in her own satisfaction, and much, much more!

Are you a Fear-Based Flaw Finder, frozen in pickiness? Image Expert & Therapist Kim Seltzer reveals the power of experience, practice, presence and connecting energetically to create real chemistry.  Sex -how long to keep your pants on, when to reveal your “stuff,” and how to date without attachment. Are your results begging you to adjust your expectations? How to turn disappointment into an a-ha moment. Guys, keep the beard, ditch it, trim it? Is your “look” attracting the right women? Ladies, the power of The Dress, The Shoes, and maybe just one tube of lipstick in developing your approachability quotient. 

What's a woman's role in dating today? Listen in as Julie interviews fellow matchmaker Marla Martenson about how smart women are putting the spin on courtship in the post #MeToo era. How can she get HIM to initiate? Should she text him a Thank You after the date? Attraction: WHY a man is stuck on his preferred body type, and what to do about it. Entitlement, expectations, and the too-quick-to-veto trap.  Manifesting through affirmations, intuition and kindness, and how to NOT burn your bridges.   

In this, my very first episode of the Cupid's Coach podcast, I share with you the reasons why I'm optimistic about dating, yes, even in today's wild world.  I guide you through the process of creating your Romance Marketing Plan -- your guide, to keep your love life on track. You'll identify your Elements of Appeal (why you're a Catch) and also the areas where you might want to evolve, to cause yourself to be more marketable and more lovable. You'll nail down the qualities that most matter to you in the partner who's in your future, learning the distinction between a preference and a Critical Criteria. And you'll create your strategic action plan for the coming year of your life. Your love life is yours to design. Starting today. 

I'm Julie Ferman, take a sneak peek at the road ahead as we laugh, learn, share, grow, and love!