Group Talk - Small Group Network

Show Notes:The Art of Gathering: How we meet and why it matters by Priya Parker The Essential Guide for Small Group Leaders by Bill SearchWhy does a group get tired? •Leader begins to coast•Meeting becomes routine•Relationships hit a plateau•Purpose is lost#1 Leader Coasting Am I practicing “Generous Authority”? – [Priya Parker] “’Chill’ is selfishness disguised as kindness.” - Priya Parker Generous Authority Serves others by: 1.Protecting group members 2.Equalizing group members 3.Inter-Connecting group members We practice Generous Authority by:1.Practicing good MANNERS in the group 2.Reminding all of the “RULES” 3.Encourage “Sprout” Speeches not “Stump” Speeches Now What?1. Re-affirm Covenant 2. Have tough conversations3. Re-up as the leader or get out 4. Share Leadership #2 Meeting Routine “The room is doing 80% of the job” – Jerry Seinfeld Venue Matters 1.The space should be a symbol of reason for meeting 2.The space should bring out desired behaviors and discourage those you don’t 3.Consider density Form