Relationships Uncomplicated

When infidelity is revealed, the hurt partner often experiences a deep sense of disorientation and a desperate need for answers. Many ask: Do I need to know every detail to heal—or am I just digging deeper into more pain? In this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Idit Sharoni is joined by Dr. Yael Haklai-Neagu to explore a phase many couples get stuck in after betrayal: the forensic data collection phase. This is when questions about the affair—ranging from timelines to explicit details—dominate the recovery process, sometimes for months or even years. Together, they discuss: Why the urge to gather every detail is completely normal What it looks like when this phase becomes a barrier to healing How to know if you're still seeking coherence or getting stuck in the pain Real-life examples of couples navigating this phase Actionable steps to help you move forward, even when not all the answers are there This episode offers clarity, compassion, and a gentle roadmap out of a phase that often feel