This Organized Life

Hi Friends! Today we are wrapping up our series on Clutter & The Enneagram with Enneagram 9, Marissa Orr.  You may remember Marissa from episode 191 where we talked about her book Lean Out, The Truth About Women, Power & The Workplace.A lot of what Marissa talks about in her book has to do with personality styles, so I invited her back on TOL to talk about the influence on her Enneagram type to her life both in the workplace, and as a mom.  Nines are known as The Peacemakers, and truth be told, some of my favorite people on this planet identify as an Enneagram 9.Below are a few things that we talked about during our conversation:The difference between merging and martyringWhy 9s avoid controversy and despise conflictThe importance of alone time for 9sWhy procrastination is real.The role of decision fatigueMarissa shares how her “nine behavior” traces back to childhood. As someone who parents a nine, I would have paid a million dollars to have this wisdom when my daughter was small. I cannot think of a