Cupid's Coach With Julie Ferman

Great Love Debate host (and Cupid's Coach podcast producer!) Brian Howie is in the Hot Seat, with Mr. Feman - Julie's hubby since 1990, former franchisee with Great Expectations Video Dating Service - where Gil sold Julie a membership to his agency. 34 years later, what does Gil have to say about Dating and the Dating Industry today? What's happening with The Great Love Debate in 2024?

What's it like being The Guy who's deservedly selective, sincerely seeking a relationship, struggling through the dating process? What does he need in order to engage with a woman at the coffee shop? What are HIS pressure points? When the matchmaker can't get his Yes for the introduction, why is that?

Why are some people one-date-wonder specialists? What does “doing dating well” look like? Good dating, Bad dating, Ugly dating— How would you rate your behavior of late? Edu-taining stories await for you here. 

What "doing dating well" sounds like. Jonathon Aslay and Dr. Corinne Devin share insider perspectives on modern dating. What's intimidating, what's alluring in today's world? Alignment, the deception of chemistry, and the Sniff Test. How proactive to be?  How much work should it be to do dating well? And how to say difficult things. 

Does it reveal that you’re ready for and prepared to have someone else around? My guest is Marlena Boardman, Interior Designer, whose company, Hello Handsome helps single men up their game in the arena of living space. How’s your Zoom environment? Your car? Decluttering does what for us?

Be the fly on the wall, as two world class matchmakers talk turkey about what it’s like behind the scenes. My guest is Laurie Berzack, founder of Carolinas Matchmaker. Sex - when to go there and why we’re wise to wait for it. Why women are smart to be dating online and how to do it well. And the evolution of the planning of The Date. 

From the Horse’s Mouth! My guest is Thomas Carouso, MFT, sharing the grown-up, mature guy’s perspective in dating.  What is it that he is most seeking? Beyond attraction, what qualities are essential for a conscious, evolved man to see in a woman, to take her seriously? He’d rather be single forever than partner with a woman who isn’t ….what?

Looking for chemistry? What are YOU doing to seed it, to set the stage for connection? My guest is Dating Coach Hunt Ethridge, master of “chemistry preparedness” - sharing with us what tangential questions to ask in the dating process. What’s a positive emotional question? How can we set the stage for chemistry to find us? Why do men sit next to each other, vs. facing each other?  And the power of respect, appreciation, a compliment in creating the space for chemistry. 

My guest is Kristina Court, who is on a mission to empower and support single, modern, professional women, using both spiritual and practical tools, accelerating the unseen desire for truth. She walks her talk and her British accent is delightful. Join us.

Those who aren’t getting it are easy to find - the folks who are looking for an unnatural match, who are polluting the waters with sloppy, discourteous, dishonest behaviors. AND there are miracles happening - Boot Camp Clients who are reinventing their dating lives. They’re planning their own events and they’re bringing the magic - willingness to rethink things, reorganize their priorities, their practices and behavior. Those who are getting it are practicing causing what’s been lacking. 

Let's rethink this. Dating "your way" isn't working well? Might you be game for truly trusting your matchmaker - having a date with someone whose photos and "checkboxes" you've not seen? My guest is my colleague, Genevieve Gresset, Director of Communications for The Matchmaking Company, with 40 offices throughout the U.S. What possibilities and surprises might there be for you if you took your hands off the wheel?

My guest is renowned, enormously popular NYC Matchmaker, Maria Avgitidis Pyrgiotakis, host of the Ask a Matchmaker podcast. What partnership looks like, with a strong, accomplished, "intimidating" woman. Once and for all, we handle height, wealth and religion. And, how to have better first dates - masturbate first. Who knew?

When dating goes beautifully and when things flop. Why? Did he blow it? Did she? How might she have saved him? How might he have saved her? Where's The Man with the Plan? Where's the woman who's low maintenance, easy to please? It might be the person in the mirror, with a bit of insight.   

Can true transformation happen in 60 days? Yes, indeed!  Listen in to the Group Zoom Webinar, to find out how we are indeed transforming how dating is done in today's wild world. What's Julie's Boot Camp actually like? Find out here to see if it's for you. The real question - Are you a "grower" ?? Let's find out. 

Designing life while divorcing and afterward. My guest is Kelly Bonanno, Creator of the virtual Summit: Loving Life After Divorce. Kelly is a Wellness and Life Coach, specializing in guiding men and women through the transition and upheaval that occurs when a marriage chapter ends and a new chapter begins. Why to and how to prioritize  self-care, self-love and the personal development that is essential to overall wellbeing and the preparation for the tomorrows ahead. 

In the hot seat is Confidence Coach, Cameron Schwartz, shining light on the value of discipline in developing the personal confidence which is essential to doing dating well and being successful in our relationships. How becoming the most optimized version of ourselves and falling in love with ourselves is essential to attracting a healthy partner. the value of a power nap and how to get the gift you really want from a guy.

Do guys like raunch? Can we girls handle raunch? Let’s find out. My guest is Comedian / Podcaster Madison Malloy, author of “Time to Lighten the F*ck up - a Self-Help Guide with a Side of Humor.” What’s dating like for a comedian who’s 40, adorable and quite outspoken? What’s a guy to do with all that? Love her, that’s what.

Back in the Hot Seat is Arielle Ford, sharing the keys to preparing for, manifesting and keeping love alive and thriving. Do you kill a guy off quickly? Developing receptivity and how to not inspire "Limp Dick Syndrome." The Key that Shared Vision is. What is the Kiss of Death in dating and is love at first sight reliable?

Lessons from the GUY's perspective. My guest is Scot McKay, Relationship Consultant / Media Personality who boldly addresses hotspots in modern day dating. Pornography, sex, unspoken fears and the importance of open-hearted authenticity as the ultimate turn-on for both men and women.

What's Julie's new 60-Day Boot Camp all about? Is this virtual learning / growth opportunity your next important step in your dating / relationship journey? We'll find out together. Wherever you live on the planet, this is the course to take BEFORE you hire a matchmaker and BEFORE you throw yourself into an online dating process to dramatically increase your chances of success. Your invitation is in this podcast episode.