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I seriously think I'm healed from ever questioning that my dream for relationships is unfounded. Johann and Rachel pour PRAISE & RESPECT into each other’s Souls. They are a beautiful, transparent and authentic couple who is engaged in co-devotional practices and brave transparent communication that I've always craved. It's possible! And of course the inside always creates the outside so their deep internal devotional self practice is clearly at the root of their shared devotion.  @johannurb3731      @fxemma   In this deliciously vulnerable and succulently transparent conversation we also discussed... -How literally having their relationship almost blow up in yr. 4 was the catalyst through which these transformations occurred... -How facing, integrating and giving the gift of their processed shadow has brought out the best in themselves and one another... -How they make other people gag when they praise appreciate and fill up each other's cup with kindness...  -How the pillar of their relationship is their

I seriously think I'm healed from ever questioning that my dream for relationships is unfounded. Johann and Rachel pour PRAISE & RESPECT into each other’s Souls. They are a beautiful, transparent and authentic couple who is engaged in co-devotional practices and brave transparent communication that I've always craved. It's possible! And of course the inside always creates the outside so their deep internal devotional self practice is clearly at the root of their shared devotion.  @johannurb3731      @fxemma   In this deliciously vulnerable and succulently transparent conversation we also discussed... -How literally having their relationship almost blow up in yr. 4 was the catalyst through which these transformations occurred... -How facing, integrating and giving the gift of their processed shadow has brought out the best in themselves and one another... -How they make other people gag when they praise appreciate and fill up each other's cup with kindness...  -How the pillar of their relationship is their

Who the fuck knew I would cry at the end? What an honor to speak of Making Love with Life, one of my Allana Pratt Method Processes and address your awesome questions gathered by my social media department. There are many examples from my life and my successful client’s lives that show you what’s possible when it comes to you valid concerns around intimacy, sexual connection, repairing ruptures and awakening your most glorious sacred orgasmic energy. Enjoy! I answered the following questions and went on many delicious tangents!  1. How can unresolved conflicts in a relationship lead to a diminished sexual connection, and what steps can couples take to address this? 2. What are some ways to reignite sexual passion in long-term relationships where routine and familiarity may have dulled the spark? 3. How can feelings of inadequacy or self-doubt during sex affect a relationship, and what can partners do to support each other in overcoming these challenges? I am thrilled to partner with Magic Mind for this episo

I can't imagine what it takes to be a full-time family law litigator, own your own practice for 40 years, then get multiple coaching certifications and show up with such zest for life and joy for being alive... while simultaneously beginning to understand that feeling doesn't happen in the mind, it happens in the body... and that there are no feelings that are wrong or bad, that we aren't wrong or bad, that all feelings are a beautiful part of Being Human. This has been the Exquisite journey of watching Rosie come into my Inner Circle coaching program, become a certified Allana Pratt method coach and do her first PSI.  In this intimate connection we also discussed... -How she'd never come across processes like mine before that weren't goal oriented but depth of presence, heart and truth-oriented.  -How she thought she was feeling all along but she wasn't, she was analyzing in her head versus surrendering to the flow of energy and trusting her body. -How in our one-on-one journey in Australia I was able to fac

Wow what a phenomenal blast from the past with my soul brother Blake! It gives me such joy to watch where we both were a couple of years ago when we recorded this episode and I just had to share it with you delicious ones again. Watch out for the next Intimate Conversations episodes with Blake that will be airing in November, it gets even juicer which I didn't even know was possible. Love you brother! Talk about a rich, juicy, vulnerable, connected, authentic call with a brother from another mother on the other side of the globe. What a blessing, honor and privilege to receive Blake's transparent share of his recent reconfiguration and rebirth. What a reminder of the importance of surrounding ourselves with non judgmental beings who see us and give us a sense of warmth. What a statement of the evolution of humanity talking about the gifts that psychedelics can bring our growth and embodiment. And what a poignant conversation about the new paradigm of conscious transparent leadership as coaches. I think you'll

Divinity is absolutely bonkers magical and amazing, of COURSE I welcomed Larry back to the podcast with the theme From Head to Heart as he shared with us the journey of writing his latest book, the Spirit of Fatherhood. And when he embarked on writing this book about faith, indeed his faith was tested. In the interview you will hear so many ego deaths when it came to family, animals, his boys, his marriage, his business, his physical body, depression... yet it didn't stop and Larry kept going until he surrendered and became the embodiment of Hope. And this incredible intimate conversation we also discussed ... -The difference between believing and knowing... -How it's a dangerous path to have your worth only based on the outside in accomplishments and achievements... -How on his own (only as an ego) it might have been impossible to write that book in 11 weeks, yet he surrendered and allowed a co-creative experience with God... -How learning to receive especially in an exquisite moment with his son, taught him

Divinity is absolutely bonkers magical and amazing, of COURSE I welcomed Larry back to the podcast with the theme From Head to Heart as he shared with us the journey of writing his latest book, the Spirit of Fatherhood. And when he embarked on writing this book about faith, indeed his faith was tested. In the interview you will hear so many ego deaths when it came to family, animals, his boys, his marriage, his business, his physical body, depression... yet it didn't stop and Larry kept going until he surrendered and became the embodiment of Hope. And this incredible intimate conversation we also discussed ... -The difference between believing and knowing... -How it's a dangerous path to have your worth only based on the outside in accomplishments and achievements... -How on his own (only as an ego) it might have been impossible to write that book in 11 weeks, yet he surrendered and allowed a co-creative experience with God... -How learning to receive especially in an exquisite moment with his son, taught him

In this episode I love talking about how to leave the painful world of anxiety, second guessing, fear-based strategizing, desperate seeking of understanding into the quieter wiser realm of the heart’s truth… which sets us up to descend even further into the hip’s knowing, the soul’s embodiment. I created this process based on all I’ve learned in the past 20 years, based in my own suffering of, Why did he leave me? cheat on me? hurt me? use me? Why why why… it was driving me mad! While I’m proud of my Ivy League education and graduating with honors… it’s done sh*t to create thriving intimacy! Thank you for these three questions that I did my best to answer. I invite you to take the next step in discovering the world of these processes that have supported the integration of triggers and the awakening of deeper truth that will guide you to make wise, discerning heart centered divine action in your relationships… for a life of more joy, peace, aliveness and gratitude. I would start with Become the One Intro, a 3

How magical that Elizabeth came to me back in 2015 and we began our journey together regarding intimacy with money and her relationship with her father. About eight years later she returned when shit was really hitting the fan and she elegantly had a spiritual breakdown~ breakthrough in her ability to let go of family drama and find her wholeness, centeredness and enoughness on the inside.  In this delicious episode we also discussed ... -How when we stop clamoring for pleasure and resisting pain, we can drop into deep presence and no longer be victims of our circumstances... -How on her first call she felt embarrassed to reveal her emotions but discovered something quite magical when she opened her eyes... -How the balance between group calls, private calls plus an upcoming PSI immersion is exactly the support she desires to help her feel enough exactly as she is... -How the quality and depth of relationship with a man has elevated as her worthiness, receptivity and playfulness expands gorgeously... -How it'

What an instant connection with Magda Kay, it turns out we both have the same human design, we are both 6/2s, Hermit Role Model, and it's fascinating when you get somebody and understand them so instantly.  It was also fascinating to me to learn what it's like to live in a polyamorous tantric community and discover the healing and freedom she experienced. Also curious that as she's completed that phase she's moved back to Poland to share what she's learned developing a certification around Tantra and Intimacy. In this energetically delicious conversation, we also discussed ... -Her book called No More Faking It where she discusses the healing and evolutionary journey around head, the heart, the hips, the gut, the pussy :-) -How most of her Shadow Integrations have been through sexual tantric practices with practitioners or lovers, intense and energetic in nature... -How her upbringing has left scars or wounds that she is integrating around what it takes to have healthy partnership that's a contribution to her

What an instant connection with Magda Kay, it turns out we both have the same human design, we are both 6/2s, Hermit Role Modela, and it's fascinating when you get somebody and understand them so instantly.  It was also fascinating to me to learn what it's like to live in a polyamorous tantric community and discover the healing and freedom she experienced. Also curious that as she's completed that phase she's moved back to Poland to share what she's learned developing a certification around Tantra and Intimacy. In this energetically delicious conversation, we also discussed ... -Her book called No More Faking It where she discusses the healing and evolutionary journey around head, the heart, the hips, the gut, the pussy :-) -How most of her Shadow Integrations have been through sexual tantric practices with practitioners or lovers, intense and energetic in nature... -How her upbringing has left scars or wounds that she is integrating around what it takes to have healthy partnership that's a contribution to he

In this episode I love how life provided aligned personal and professional stories to share with you so as to best answer your wonderful questions and support your intimate relationships in thriving :-) -Your first question was: How can I communicate my need for reassurance to my partner without seeming needy or dependent? -I discussed the difference between need and needy. I explored how discovering the source of our communications changes everything because we can be connecting from emptiness or wholeness, manipulation or invitation, attachment to the results or allowance of all. -Your second question was: Can you suggest ways to manage my anxiety about love and rejection that allow me to enjoy a deeper connection with my partner? -I shared one fundamental truth that you can't be rejected if you won't reject self. Now being rejected might sting a bit, but it's only truly debilitating and devastating when we've already rejected our own soul. Similarly, we can't feel anxious about the outside if on the inside

I love this woman! Who knew both of us would cry so much!? Tears of gratitude, being moved that the 'work works'. We shared how the depth of safety we experience in our bodies now is magnificent compared to when we were trying to control outside circumstances to be good enough, pretty enough, safe enough, chosen for a job, chosen by a man... how glorious it has been to watch Kristina after her divorce, integrate old wounds and fall madly in love with herself.  In this vulnerable delicious conversation, we also discussed ... -How proud she is of her daughter's, how they own their value and how she gives them spaciousness to grow, fall down and get back up again... -How grateful she is for the lessons she's learned from every man in her life and how that external forgiveness led to internal forgiveness that awakened her own internal Noble Masculine... -How delicious, sensual, juicy, beautiful and alive she feels in her sacred erotic connection to her body and its capacity for joy, pleasure and surrender... yum.

Blown away as I imagined by return guest John Wineland.  Right out of the gate as I expressed the theme of the month with turning anger into fierce love, John took us on a deep dive into the energy of anguish, when anger and grief are combined. He's so right, underneath my anger I always want to sob (and I shed some tears on this podcast). He spoke of how when we widen our anger in the yogic practice and open, we reconnect with our hearts and authentic anguish is accessible to express AND much more palpable to receive by our partner.  In this extraordinary conversation we also discussed... -How being with the feminine storm is not about putting up with wound dumping or ambushing the masculine with anger... -How we're always going to fail in the practice of intimacy, devotion to love, and masculine and feminine polarity… we just need to recommit... -How often when we attempt to repair after a rupture, if we told the truth, we honestly don't want to hear about their experience...  and what is it going to take t

Blown away as I imagined by return guest John Wineland.  Right out of the gate as I expressed the theme of the month with turning anger into fierce love, John took us on a deep dive into the energy of anguish, when anger and grief are combined. He's so right, underneath my anger I always want to sob (and I shed some tears on this podcast). He spoke of how when we widen our anger in the yogic practice and open, we reconnect with our hearts and authentic anguish is accessible to express AND much more palpable to receive by our partner.  In this extraordinary conversation we also discussed... -How being with the feminine storm is not about putting up with wound dumping or ambushing the masculine with anger... -How we're always going to fail in the practice of intimacy, devotion to love, and masculine and feminine polarity… we just need to recommit... -How often when we attempt to repair after a rupture, if we told the truth, we honestly don't want to hear about their experience...  and what is it going to take t

In this episode I reveal why I created the Theatre of Redemption and why it works… and why many clients avoid it yet once they go through it the first time, their life opens up. I move on to answer (5) of your awesome questions... -1. Could you share your insights on the first steps someone should take when they feel completely overwhelmed by anger and betrayal after a relationship ends? *Feel. Thinking won’t help. Distracting and bypassing clearly make it worse. Create space, a safe container, with a facilitator such as myself, or the backdrop of Nature or being received by Consciousness Itself and FEEL. -2. You often speak about transforming negative emotions into positive action. Can you elaborate on how someone can channel deep-seated anger from past abuse into a force for fierce love and self-compassion? * Positive action is best accessed after doing the Theatre of Redemption in the Dance of Polarity Process where you literally see how you are better, stronger, wiser and more evolved having gone throug

OK why is it that I lose my shit and cry my face off with grateful happy tears every time I talk to these two? I loooove them. Their bravery, willingness to do the work, to feel and stay connected to themselves and one another, their team mentality, their assuming the best with one another even when triggered, their honoring of each other's feelings...  They are nothing short of inspirational.  In this absolutely transparent and real podcast we also discussed... -The power of consistently making time for one another being alone even with 2 little kiddos...  -The literal transformational experiences my annual intimacy retreats are for their souls, their marriage and their future...  -How having a third party who unconditionally loves you with zero judgment and believes in your capacity to heal, provides the secret sauce to keep going. -How being a part of a community coaching with like hearted people consistently provides growth and fuels breakthroughs that create the relationship of their dreams... -How becau

Oh The Places You’ll Go! That Dr. Seuss book title reminds me of our growth and evolution as leaders! This blast from the past interview in 2016 with John Wineland on Intimate Conversations highlighted John when we both contributed to the Good Men Project. John has travelled world-wide teaching his vision of embodied men’s work and deep relational practice. Back in 2014, he founded The New Men’s Work Project, which has attracted men from around the world looking to develop as leaders in their relationships and communities. Soon as a return guest in 2024 in Season 12 of Intimate Conversations, he’ll share more about his book From the Core, his Podcast Embodied Relationship Experience and more. ________________________________________________________ ❤️ Successful professionally yet suck at deep intimate love? Can’t get it right as hard as you try? Hate yourself because you know better, but the pattern still continues? Desire 1-on-1 support to integrate these subconscious trauma wounds? This is my genius. Let

I'm always left spellbound by the breathtaking honor of connecting with Dr. Marc Gafni. When he speaks every cell of my body comes alive, my soul feels ignited, I'm able to literally feel Eros in, as and through me. It brought me to tears. We spoke of his new book that I invite you to purchase, First Principles and First Values. Not only did we speak of Eros and Pseudo Eros, but a new word, Erosvalue in response to the meta-crisis. And yet what does this mean to your life and intimate relationships? In this inspiring conversation you will discover... -The importance of being able to feel the whole of life, not to bypass the hurt or disassociate ...but to feel it all, move beyond identity and embrace unique values to experience a never known before possibility. -How reality isn't stagnant, it evolves, Eros evolves, the ever deepening of intimacies where homosapiens are evolving into what he and Dr. Barbara Marx Hubbard call Homo Amor. -How First Principles and First Values allow us to tell a new Story of Va

I'm always left spellbound by the breathtaking honor of connecting with Dr. Marc Gafni. When he speaks every cell of my body comes alive, my soul feels ignited, I'm able to literally feel Eros in, as and through me. It brought me to tears. We spoke of his new book that I invite you to purchase, First Principles and First Values. Not only did we speak of Eros and Pseudo Eros, but a new word, Erosvalue in response to the meta-crisis. And yet what does this mean to your life and intimate relationships? In this inspiring conversation you will discover... -The importance of being able to feel the whole of life, not to bypass the hurt or disassociate ...but to feel it all, move beyond identity and embrace unique values to experience a never known before possibility. -How reality isn't stagnant, it evolves, Eros evolves, the ever deepening of intimacies where homosapiens are evolving into what he and Dr. Barbara Marx Hubbard call Homo Amor. -How First Principles and First Values allow us to tell a new Story of Va